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I had a first date with this girl. It went really well and there was initial chemistry. We talk in the phone and chat back and forth for a few weeks and it is really hard to get something set up for a date with her again even though she professes that she wants to go out again.
Second date finally happens. We go to a movie. Her body language during the movie says not interested to me. She sits in the opposite corner of her chair with crossed arms during the movie. When the date is over she says that she is in a hurry to get home because her child is being babysat by her mother and her mother might get angry if she doesn't get home soon. She gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. She says that she wants to go out again but she doesn't know when she will be able to.
For the next week we chat back and forth and text back and forth. On Wed. she tells me that she is going to be really busy for the next month or so because she is now working two jobs, her family is working on the house because they are moving and she needs to find an apartment, and because of her son. I told her that this was cool and I was patient.
I have sent her a few text messages since and no response. I haven't heard from her since then. She is still going on a dating site, the one that I met her on, and she is on there regularly.
This brings me to my point....If you aren't interested be up front and honest. Don't say that you are and then just quit talking to someone and not responding back. Don't waste my time if you are going to say one thing and do something else.
I fucking hate dating because of the stupid games that people play these days. I wish I could find someone else like me that is upfront and no bullshit. Say what you mean and mean what you say. It is what it is and if it isn't, say so.
Stupid fucking head games.
Second date finally happens. We go to a movie. Her body language during the movie says not interested to me. She sits in the opposite corner of her chair with crossed arms during the movie. When the date is over she says that she is in a hurry to get home because her child is being babysat by her mother and her mother might get angry if she doesn't get home soon. She gives me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. She says that she wants to go out again but she doesn't know when she will be able to.
For the next week we chat back and forth and text back and forth. On Wed. she tells me that she is going to be really busy for the next month or so because she is now working two jobs, her family is working on the house because they are moving and she needs to find an apartment, and because of her son. I told her that this was cool and I was patient.
I have sent her a few text messages since and no response. I haven't heard from her since then. She is still going on a dating site, the one that I met her on, and she is on there regularly.
This brings me to my point....If you aren't interested be up front and honest. Don't say that you are and then just quit talking to someone and not responding back. Don't waste my time if you are going to say one thing and do something else.
I fucking hate dating because of the stupid games that people play these days. I wish I could find someone else like me that is upfront and no bullshit. Say what you mean and mean what you say. It is what it is and if it isn't, say so.
Stupid fucking head games.
I regress....I HATE Dating!
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I met this guy on a dating site. We talked for close to two months. We would talked on the phone for hours a day and sent lots of hot text messages. He had a real sexy voice and he said all the right things. He asked me to meet him at a local mall. We both knew where it was located and then we were going to go out for dinner afterwards. The night before the date he and I were talking on the phone and he heard some noise in the background and asked me what I was doing. I told him I was making him a surprize. He finally got it out of me that I was baking him Chocolate Chip Cookies for our date the next day. The next morning about an hour before the date he calls and says, "Lisa, I can't lie to you anymore.... The picture on the computer and on your camera phone is not me. I am really the friend of mine that I told you about. Do you remember the midget/dwarf, with no arms, that has his hands attached to his shoulders?" He said, "Do you still want to meet me?" I said, "Sure." I am good for a joke... I thought for sure he was joking with me. When I go to meet him he is three foot tall, with no arms, and his hands were attached to his shoulders. I kept waiting for my real date to show up but he never did. When I went to leave he had the nerve to ask me if he could still have his cookies. I didn't have the heart to say no... so I went to my car and got them for him. lol
I don't care if she is busy, everybody is busy these days, but if someone is interested in another person, they make the time. Pure and simple. I would tell her you understand she is busy, to look you up when she isnt busy, then I'd lose her Number!! Keep trying with your site, you will find better, and you deserve better!