Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
For those who know me know my story, I just want to tell you I'm still staying strong. I've thought about calling him about begging to come home. I've thought about all the good times and I cry and cry but then I remember something was NO good...
My abusive ex would STILL like for me to come back, even after being separated for 2.5 years now. He thinks he's changed, but in reality, he's shown his true, ugly colors throughout the whole separation and divorce process. Outsiders might think he's changed, but I know better, and my family can see through his BS, too. My point is, abusers really don't change, and you would SOOO regret ever going back. Just don't, no matter what he says. You're on a new path now, and it WILL lead you to the right person when you're ready.
When you think about the "good" times, also think about the "NOT so good times", and this will keep you from calling him and begging him to come home.