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A few questions but did not want to make multiple threads. So my life took a huge nice turn the last two weeks. Long story short I met someone online who I was ONLY going to talk to as a friend since we had a lot of things in common and I am seeing someone else. He had answered tons of questions on his profile which led me to asking a lot of questions and telling this guy stuff I had never said to anyone else and he not only actually understood what I was saying he was able to explain me to myself and give me resources. Most of my life I usually fake with men. They simply cannot give me what I need. I actually thought something was wrong with what I wanted. Seems I am perfectly fine after all I am just wired different and there are people completely on the other side of the spectrum who are more than happy and capable of balancing me out. So friendship went to another level last night. So here are my questions.This might be a bit graphic.
1. Every time I have heard about squirting it was from g-spot stimulation. I have never did it before. Hell to be honest I thought I was going to need lube since my last two partners I would not even get wet with. He hit a spot not on the front wall where one would find the g-spot but on the back wall. It hurt like hell for a minute then the there was a flood. I am talking eyes roll back in my head something from a porn film kind of thing. I have been doing research and I cannot find anything on this spot. He was able to repeat it same spot later so it was not a fluke. Has anyone ever experienced squirting from something other than the g-spot
2. Has anyone ever been seriously sore the next day. Not from obvious things like bite marks or bruises but stomach muscles, back muscles hurting. The inside of you so sore it is uncomfortable to sit.
3. Have you ever got up the next day still feeling like your body is shaky the rest of the day. I loved every minute of what happened (and to be honest it was so much more than sex) but now I am nervous and a bit worried. It seems to have taken so much out of me.
1. Every time I have heard about squirting it was from g-spot stimulation. I have never did it before. Hell to be honest I thought I was going to need lube since my last two partners I would not even get wet with. He hit a spot not on the front wall where one would find the g-spot but on the back wall. It hurt like hell for a minute then the there was a flood. I am talking eyes roll back in my head something from a porn film kind of thing. I have been doing research and I cannot find anything on this spot. He was able to repeat it same spot later so it was not a fluke. Has anyone ever experienced squirting from something other than the g-spot
2. Has anyone ever been seriously sore the next day. Not from obvious things like bite marks or bruises but stomach muscles, back muscles hurting. The inside of you so sore it is uncomfortable to sit.
3. Have you ever got up the next day still feeling like your body is shaky the rest of the day. I loved every minute of what happened (and to be honest it was so much more than sex) but now I am nervous and a bit worried. It seems to have taken so much out of me.
Wow, congrats on that. Can't give you anything useful about the questions since I'm a guy and not a medical person in the least bit. But happy that you were taken to a new level.
2. Honeymoon soreness, lol, that is one classification of sexual soreness. Personally never been sore from the inside out, just not my cup of tea in that aspect, still I have been in close proximity ;+)
3. Next day heebie geebies? Maybe the shaking lasts a while, but maybe there is concern that a roofie was introduced. Not suggesting that is the case but might be worth thinking about.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anterior_fornix_erogenous_zone
Yes I have been sore the next day, but hun you should not been feeling shaky the next day unless you had too much to drink & that caused you to be a but dehydrated or... something extra was added to enhance your experience. I'm not sayin that's it, but think about it.
Why are you nervous & worried? will you see him again?
Someone once said that if the girl gets up to use the restroom after & stumbles in to the wall, then you know you did a really really good job. :)
Usually if I was sore where the inside was uncomfortable I'd let my man know he stretched things too much & please take it easier the next time. Back, belly soreness, a little outer soreness - I'm good. Inside soreness (been there) it was a bit much for me.
To me - It's like not wanting a hangover so you watch how much you drink. Over-drinking may be 'occasionally' fun but not something I want on a regular basis. So is that internal soreness, even if it was a great night. (but again, that is me - if you loved it, then know that it can/does happen to others.....) :)
I guess now I will have to find it ;)
My first real Dom I have ever been with. He spent lots and lots of time explaining safety and everything else before we even got to that point but no matter how much talking it did not come close to preparing me.
As for if I will see him again. 95% chance yes. Things are very complicated and confusing for me right now. We have taken a small step back but we do talk every day still.