Do you mean he's not getting a NUT, or just not having a "O" because I can get off with out getting a NUT.

both :(

The only thing you can do is take his word for it that it's not you.

He could be stressed about something, not feeling well, had too much to drink, tired, there are a lot of things that can prevent a guy from ejaculating. If you or he makes it into a big deal, it can turn into a big deal, the never ending cycle of performance anxiety. He knows you're worried about it so he worries about it, wonders whether or not he's going to cum and that anxiety can prevent it from happening.

Why do you think he's hiding something from you?

It's not commonly known, but men have some hormonal swings just like women do... and can have issues and difficulties with sex due to a variety of things... and like women, it's very difficult to talk about. He probably doesn't even know himself.

Are you trying to ask if we think he is cheating on you? And that is the reason?

Are there any other reasons to mistrust him?

No Sex when Aunt Flo in town???? Not knowing if anything is different, I could be he's got his mind somewhere else, Could be a Job of a lack of a job. Have a heart to heart but do it somwhere out side the bedroom . Have a DATE NIGHT WHERE SEX IS NOT THE OBJECT OF THE NIGHT. See how that does.

No I don't think he's cheating on me. He wouldn't.... I just think something is going on that's bothering him enough to cause this, and he won't tell me what it is. We've had some relationship trouble lately, stemming from some things that happened when I was a kid....................... And I don't know if he's ok with that or not. He says he is. He says he wants to help me heal from it, but since we talked about it we either haven't had sex or he hasn't cum during sex.

No, no sex when AF is in town. We've done it before, but I have some hormone problems that make me really sick sometimes and this past month was especially bad as far as that goes because I've started a treatment for it. And thanks for the advice. I might just do that.

Is he on any medications that might interfere?

"He said it isn't because of me" That could be a red flag.

I didn't think my Ex would EVER cheat on me - It hit me like a ton of bricks...
Have his habits changed at all lately?

It could possibly be medications - prescription or recreational.

You need to talk to him and ask him to be upfront and honest with you...
Good Luck. (((Fallen)))

Today things are better than ever. We had sex when we woke up, sex in the shower (first time WE had done this TOGETHER) and sex after the shower. He orgasmed and came all three times!!! :D and it was GREAT sex!!!!!!

Congrats! On the "creamy dreamy"!

Any idea what the trouble was?

Jet... you said "Do you mean he's not getting a NUT, or just not having a "O" because I can get off with out getting a NUT."

I have just recently heard this term "busting a nut" I thought it ment haveing the O. can you explain please,... sorry if this is a stupid question but I am here to learn :) thanks

For me GETTING A NUT MEANS " EJACULATING".....I can have a "O" WITHOUT EJACULATING.

I often don't cum during sex these days. Personally I don't really care. The longer I last the happier she is and I know eventually I will.

thanks Jet