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fullmetalheart 12/25/2013

So my boyfriend knows what he's doing. He can turn me on at the drop of a hat.... I just don't know how much more I can take is the issue. When we have sex we have sex for HOURS our record being 4 and a half hours. Non stop... I love it so much but it wears me out. The only reason we stop is because I can't handle much longer than that. He never wants to stop. I'm pretty sure he can go for 8 hours straight.... I can't...or maybe I can but it's a work out....

Anyways what I've noticed is that he doesn't cum, he can go for hours and get me to orgasm like 15 times but he doesn't cum...

I've asked him about it and his response was "oh yeah, I guess I'm broken I've never been able to cum..." Not once....

Does that happen to men.? Is that normal?

freakchick3175 12/25/2013

hmmm.. I was gonna say about the amounts of times and lengths of time you guys have sex, not to worry that it will fizzle down... In the beginning of my relationship , I think it was about the first year , we had crazy sex like that about 4-5 times a day. every chance we got we were all over each other , but as the relationship got less and less new , it died down.. but your man doesnt cum at all? ? ever? maybe it wont die down with him...maybe never cumming leaves him craving for more. that must suck. ...I would get soo frustrated. I dont always cum. in fact a good percent of the time I dont. and thats kinda frustrating.
I wonder if your man has always had this issue ....like has he never cum in his life..? .
anyway....ive been with men who have had issues cumming and didnt always get to. but not every single time.. it always made me feel bad. like I was doing something wrong. or I didnt feel good enough to them...

fullmetalheart 12/25/2013

I've spoken with him about it and it is my understanding that he has NEVER been able to cum. He said that he didn't want me to feel bad because he can't even get off when he masturbates. He's apologized to me even though I don't feel like he's done anything wrong. But yes he's always horny and always wants sex...I don't mind but he keeps going and going I can't have sex 6 hours a day lol

Bubbabiker 12/25/2013

It's not normal. Has he been to a urologist to talk about his issue? Will help determine if it's physical or mental issue.

fullmetalheart 12/25/2013

He's never gone to a doctor for it but I want him to and he said he would so long as I went with him. I told him I would

deleted_user 12/25/2013

I've never heard or that....I was going to say how unfulfilling that must be for him. But he's never had one so doesn't know.

Have you tried googling it? See if you can find some case history's.

deleted_user 12/25/2013

I agree he should see a urologist. There can be many things that can cause it both physical and psychological.

http://www.minddisorders.com/Kau-Nu/Male-orgasmic-disorder.html

http://www.health.com/health/condition-article/0,,20190122,00.html

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/delayed-ejaculation/DS01174/DSECTION=symptoms

deleted_user 12/25/2013

Get your stud to a doctor. That is not normal.

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