I am of the belief you know the saying it's not how big it is blah blah..I would so much prefer a man who respects me and treats me well than a guy with a huge dick..and that's all he's got..

I certainly agree with aussiechick. It isn't the size but how you use it. I would much rather be with a man who is caring and knows how to please than someone with a huge manhood and doesn't respect me. It isn't just about just ramming and conquest.

I have to agree with you both. Being of the more tender nature myself and of average size in that department with my own harbored anxiety about NOT being well hung.

I have found though that my nature is to almost always pay attention to my females desires and likes and do my best to fulfill them. I have never had anyone complain to me about the size of it.

I think men today are under the stigma that you have to be huge to be a contributing MAN in the world and well I call that the cock strong syndrome. I have posted on this subject many times and usually put up a lot of statistics about the size of the average man and the actual size of a woman's vagina and how more than 6 inches is really a waste as far as stimulating the sensitive spots of the vagina. I am not saying this pertains to ALL women as some do really enjoy a large penis.

I have also found that good ORAL skills make up for other short comings. :)

I will take good oral skills over penis ANY DAY of the week!!!

Yes good attention to her likes and great oral skills do help with a healthy sex life. I really don't feel "short changed " so to speak. And her pleasure is directly linked to mine. If she feels great , I feel that way too.Sexual selfishness to me is not at all attractive. The experience usually involves at least two people. If only one is pleased I think it's a waste of time and effort.

Sooooo true onetoomany!!....a tongue and fingers can give much more pleasure

Oral is my favorite excursion :)

very large or larger than average even , can be painful for me. I don't mind looking at it, ha ha but during the more "ramming" parts to borrow someone's phrase, it bonks right onto my sensitive cervix and hurts like heck.
in fact in hindsight , the guys I have been with who were exceptionally large, I now wonder if it would have been possible to get them to withhold some of the length of it during intercourse?
I don't know if it is b/c I have a "unisex" type of first name or if everyone gets as much spam as I do about penis enhancement but I do feel that is part of why men these days are soooo sure they are not adequate.
I would guess it begins when they are boys ; I imagine them teasing each other and comparing , as if the biggest is the best. And if that is correct , that mindset gets carried into adulthood.

Average ( aka =normal ) is much shorter than you are led to believe from the blue pills and penis enlarging money making schemes.

I found out in the past few years actually, where the G spot is....and while it is not really what I am hoping for ,to have it stimulated ; probably b/c it feels odd to me to have orgasm initiated there...my currant guy has a penis shaped a little bit curved , that happens to hit that spot every time. Not complaining but just thought it was interesting. I have heard that a penis curved that way could be from old scar tissue ?
also , he is my first un circumcised man. I thought it would be gross but it's not. :)

Since I have such a quirky sense of humor , newdrake, I can't help but laugh at the topic you came up with , and having it next to that photo , holding a fish ( it was THIS BIG ) lol, I don't know, cracked me up. Hope you don't mind.

Glad you mentioned that un-circussized is not gross, as a Brit I am one of those natural fellas

in fact many blokes are after reconstructive surgery, because they have heard what they are missing :D

i thew there was a reason why i loved you boomerang..nothing wrong with a guy thats all natural..:)

Looks like the Queen of your heart is happy Drake. I would think that's good enough for you and clearly, as you tell it, you have a lot of other amazing qualities that make her love you and it all compensates for what you to perceive as your ' short comings'. Kudos for you my friend. :0)

Excellent, newdrake. Way to build yourself up.

All the statistics in the world don't help or change the way you make a person feel. Remember- Sex for women involves our BRAIN first. Maybe that's why men are fixated on the size- because they are visual. But fellas, don't worry- we aren't fixated on visual- Its mental.