Healthy Sex Support Group
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Well, I'm staying the weekend with my boyfriend and his family and we are supposed to go to a party later. I got out of the shower and I was waiting for my hair to dry and his mom says here let me blow dry your hair ( I normally don't because my hair gets super frizzy) I said no and she kept insisting. So I let her. I wanted to curl my hair and I had told her. So she started putting products in my hair like gel and hair spray and I told her I didn't want that and it was like nothing I said mattered because she just kept at it... Now my hair is frizzy and scrunched and I didn't want that. I feel ugly and ignored and I don't even want to go to the party. I had no say in my own hair
I know I could be wrong.. but you are a beautiful woman and NO WAY did you look ugly. I hope you are at the party now and having a great time :)
this woman is ALWAYS going to insert herself into your relationship, some way, some how, if you don't put your foot down.
i guarantee she will always interfere in the relationship with you and her son. (and he is not likely going to ever set boundaries even when he moves out of her house. i've seen this happen many times)
this, of course, is only MY opinion. i may or may not be correct.
only time will tell.
YOU have to decide if the relationship is worth the additional stresses you will have to deal with. if it becomes more of an effort to "fight" the mother than it is to have happy times with the bf, then you have a choice to make.
My mother's a bit overbearing as well. She MEANS well, but, gotta sever the umbilical chord sometime, let me live my life, for God's sake! Thankfully, I finally found a job that paid well enough so I could live on my own, at age 30. Now, while my mother is still hard to handle, I only have to deal with her occasionally.
BOOM. Leave no room for her to wiggle back in.
Ugh some people are so pushy