IMO i would feel like shit...she made a vow to her HUSBAND not you and if they are having any sort of problems (and evidently they are) then going to u isnt going to fix the issue just make it worst. i wouldnt be proud of this or anything like that...seriously out of all the people in this world why go after one thats taken why not find one thats single...im a firm believer or karma...again JMO

Your right she keeps saying that is going to leave him but I think she isn't really going to, but thanks

oops when i reread that i sounded like a bitch...i apologize for that. anyways more then likely she wont leave and i think once a cheater always a cheater

My own feeling about it is that her marriage is her responsibility, not yours.
But maybe the more important issue is, how do you feel? Since you're asking the question here, it's a fair guess that you're not exactly feeling great about it.
No-one else here can tell you what you should do, you've just got to do what you feel is the right thing.

don't help to destroy a marriage.

I would feel guilty, you know she is married and still doing it..

I don't think it matters much if the dude is a friend of yours or not.

If you were married how would you feel?

just my opinion anyways

You are assisting in betraying a trust.

Should you feel guilty? I'd not tell anyone how to feel, but you really need to look in the mirror and decide if you want someone to just be YOURS and want you and you alone. Would you help a friend rob a store? You don't own the store, neither does he, they have insurance, what would it hurt?

Your guilt is on your conscience mysteryman. It has nothing to do with anyone else. As for her leaving...I wouldn't count on it. Unless you are moving into relationship land with her (and she still wont leave) there is basically no chance in hell she will leave her husband. Most likely she's just using you to fill a need. If your cool with that than so be it but don't expect anything more. Take my word for it, your doing damage you don't even know about to her marriage. And if your single she is crazy for getting involved with you in the first place. Equal risk of exposure makes for a more level affair (sorry everyone but its a fact). I would guess that you have no idea what your getting yourself into. Do all parties involved a favor and get out while you still can because when it goes bad, and it will, your not going to want to be around to see it.

Be very careful.....Someone is going to get hurt real bad....AND it very well could be you! Plenty of single women that love to sleep around out there......why mess with a married one?

Two wrongs dont make a right. I would seriously step away from this. If she is cheating on her HUSBAND , what makes you think she want cheat on just the average guy she is dating. CAUTION !!!!!!!!!!!! TRAIN WREAK AHEAD

i slept with 4 married women...and i was always torn emotionally afterwards. I knew that it was wrong...not a good feeling...

OMG.....

yep...OMG

IMO, everyone is an adult and can make their own choices and decisions. If she chooses to cheat on her husband, then that is her decision... but whether you are involved or not is yours to make and no one elses. She may be planning to leave, but if they have been together a long time, then I wouldn't count on it. Good luck!

I'm sure i screwed a couple married women when i used to be a regular on craigslist. I was on there for nothing more than sex, period. However, by the way a couple of them acted, i could just tell they were. I didn't feel guilty as i wasn't the one being cheated on, but i did feel sorry for the poor bastard at the other end. But then again, i had no idea what the situation was as there was never any conversation lol