Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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koolman 05/31/2009

I love a woman who knows how to talk dirty...! I really miss that...!

Anyone else? Why all the hints and inuendos and then, when it comes time to do the deed, clueless about telling me what she wants...? It becomes my job to be a mind-reader.

totallychaotic247 05/31/2009

I love dirty talk in bed. There an be alot gained from having the courage to tell someone what you want. I have never been a shy person, if I like something I say it, if I don\'t I\'ll say that too. I think it makes sex so much hotter when both people can just be open about what they want and need!

deleted_user 05/31/2009

I love talking dirty in bed. I dont think I have had sex without talking dirty. I think it makes sex hotter. When you are screaming and moaning there name, telling them harder and faster and when you are going to cum and how you like it and if they like it.. i dont know....
i like it.

deleted_user 05/31/2009

To be honest, sometimes I think it\'s easier to have those "what I like" conversations out of bed, when we\'re both fully clothed.
When I\'m actually doing the deed, too much talk can just kill the mood; best to keep it short and sweet.

deleted_user 05/31/2009

Yes i agree Phoenix!

deleted_user 06/03/2009

any examples????

deleted_user 06/03/2009

I like to talk dirty, but not all the time - I think if it\'s EVERY time, you end up just saying the same thing, and it gets kind of boring.

I agree with Phoenix - for the \'what i like\' talks, better when it is just talking - makes things a lot clearer!

deleted_user 06/03/2009

i like to drive \'em crazy until they start to "speak in tongues" ;)

deleted_user 06/03/2009

I can think of lots better things to be done with tongues than talking!

deleted_user 06/03/2009

jaja that was funny ecoman and actually happened to me before.. im spanish, english and arabic speaker and when im about to have and orgasm i dont know what i speak anymore...

deleted_user 06/03/2009

i would love that!

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