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tossedaside 03/12/2013

Though not quite sure how to word this so that I will not be viewed as a deviant, thought it might stimulate some interesting discussion.
I'm way behind in the having sex department, as most of you know, there are some medical issues with an important family member for me. Have spent the last 6 days in a hospital, sleeping in a chair, blah blah blah

A hospital completely full of really attractive females, wearing scrubs that simply stick to all the right places, accenting all the right attributes, while sexual frustration is part of every persons life from time to time, does it gravitate to a higher level when other pressures in life try our patience. I mean sheesh!! One more candy striper bends over in front of me showing her butt, either I'm gonna bust, or be hospitalized from stress. Not like I can rub one out here in the waiting room?

Thoughts?

OkieMan 03/12/2013

Thought #1 - Don't stare.

Thought #2 - Don't wear something loose fitting. They don't need to see what you're thinking.

Thought #3 - Go home or to your hotel, take care of business, and then come back. Focus brother, focus!

tossedaside 03/12/2013

Over populated with females, so blinders may be necessary to avoid staring ;+)
Restrictive clothing, check
Cant leave

*things have gotten better, at least my mood is more optimistic*

deleted_user 03/12/2013

just hit on one of them who seems to strike you as DTF??? and just release your freakin frustrations????

deleted_user 03/12/2013

Go get the nurses a veggie tray. They get the crappy food all the time and like the healthy stuff. Ask a nurse where to go get a drink.. Then find out when their shift ends and show up there about when you \think they will be there and you are in...

Spiky 03/12/2013

Sorry to hear you've been hospitalized. I haven't had the same problem with medical staff, with some rare exceptions involving me undressing to be examined by a doctor who was really good-looking or even just younger than me. I expect it to be more of a problem in my future.

Fortunately so far I haven't been required to spend a week surrounded by firefighters or rock climbers.

deleted_user 03/12/2013

veggie tray hahahhaa.... yeah play with them using veggies hahaahha

tossedaside 03/12/2013

Lol, all good advice or maybe ideas for the future, I think okie is more on track, I need to focus on my mom amd getting her back to health, but the situation is one wjere I can do nothing but wait and think, sad, in way to ,any aspects. And then it happens, my libido suggests I need some relief,. I should have asked

How do people contend with sexual frustration, when it is less than appropriate, or do any others experience this.

Sex is am incredible stress buster and or creator.

reveal321 03/12/2013

i think when your mind is at a constant state of stress, the body looks for outlets. i don't think you're a deviant or otherwise abnormal in your reactions.

whenever i'm in troubling situations i always tell myself: "this too shall pass" and eventually, it does.

i'm happy things are getting better.
good luck.

MsViv 03/12/2013

LSU - you took the words right out of my mouth...

deleted_user 03/12/2013

I agree if you can, Mom will be asleep and you caan take care of yourself and then be happier and better for her. Nothing wrong with a little stress relief. I does release all sorts of endorphins.

OkieMan 03/13/2013

"YOU SHALL NOT PASS!"

Sorry, Reveal just made me think of something. Care to guess? Viper, pipe down buddy, I know you know. :)

itson 03/13/2013

It's what my 7th grade teacher told me.

OkieMan 03/13/2013

ROFL.

montaname 03/13/2013

Tossed, just grab one of those exam gowns, wrap some gauze around your dick & wait for a nurse to come check your bandages

itson 03/13/2013

Back in the day I've dated a few nurses. When they get together and have a few Ritas, you will know they have the same thoughts your having. Let them see the real you and put a smile on each one of their faces. Go to the nurses station when ya can, when theuir in the room, they will remain very professional. Get them alone or together, they will loosen up.

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