Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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papertrucker 05/03/2009

This seems to be a stumbling block with the women I have ran into.

deleted_user 05/03/2009

Charm, RESPECT, love, paying attention to them, and not bring misleading should win them over. I know a gentleman that has a deformed arm and he has NO problem with ladies.

soulsearcher83 05/03/2009

I have worked with amputees and there was a recent discussion about it at work. The topic was Sex with a Disability. It's possible to do. You do need to be creative. Type sex with a disability or amputee into google and see what comes up. You will probably come across some serious information about what to do. That's how the girl giving the presentation at work did her research on the subject.

deleted_user 05/03/2009

Yea......I feel for ya Paper........mwah.......

LisaACOA 05/03/2009

I never have but I don't think I would have a problem with it.

My Husband died 11 years ago. My Husband had Cerebral Palsy...he only weighed two pounds when he was born. His mind was fine. He was extremely handsome but the left side of his body was smaller than his right side of his body. His left ankle didn't bend and his left arm and hand was pulled up some. He was very muscular but he had little use of his left arm and left hand.

The man treated me like a queen and we had a great sex life. If you really love someone you can see past those things.

deleted_user 05/04/2009

Hey Paper... My ex was and still is a left leg above knee amputee due to a car accident at age 38... She never seemed to have a problem in finding men for relationships or marriage even after losing her leg... She was an attractive wonderful woman both in and out of the bedroom and was a great lover... The lack of a leg on her left side while having sex never seemed to be any problem for either of us... It just made us be a little more creative in our positions and that made it even more special...

People with a disability need intimate relationships just like everyone else...

I wish you the best in finding a wonderful woman that will accept you for the great guy that you are... She is out there for you... Dont give up...

deleted_user 05/04/2009

Another comment I would like to make is along the lines of Papertrucker's...

I am a Diabetic with severe vascular disease, and have battled cellulitis infections in my feet and legs for the past several years, making walking very difficult... If these get worse, I may end up losing one or both legs myself in the future...

That would possibly leave me a stumbling block with the women I may encounter in the future for a relationship also...

Just curious what the ladies have to say... Thanks for listening!!! Don...

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