Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
IMO, that would be totally disrespectful of your partner, not to mention complete invasion of your partner's privacy and most likely would kill trust in a partner.
If my partner did it without me knowing, that would be the end of our relationship, no ifs, ands or buts about it, he'd be out the door. My trust in him would be completely gone and there would be nothing he could say or do to gain my trust back again so he would not be in my life any longer.
Chuck, I agree with Leather, I wouldn't do that to your wife.