Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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Duzzy011 01/17/2022

After speaking to another DS member on here about taking care of my urges nit being able to have sex with an actaul person we got on the subject on sex toys and gels etc

I ordered a few things for male toys, I was wondering if any one else has expereince on this subject and what toys you use?

Thank you

veggiequeen 01/17/2022

I have no experience myself and being a woman I only dream of having access to a sybian, but have chatted with many and heard of some.

I think it is Venus that is the man's version of the ultimate sex machine. I knew one guy who had one and said it was a well thought investment for him. But they are expensive.

Lots resort to fleshlight type things and quite a few love prostate massagers.

So I've heard.

Duzzy011 01/19/2022

Thanks for your reply @veggiequeen, I will look into all those things lol

I recently got a gel, pussy sleeve and cock ring which is all pretty fun

loren1974 01/21/2022

The Venus thing is like a grand! There are cheaper versions though.

I am not sure how you would feel about it or what your limitations might be, but have you considered finding a escort?
I have never actually done it myself. Cost is one reason, but over the last few months I have seriously started considering it. I could not do it very often but hey it would be more often than what I get now :)

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