Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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shanbanan 07/04/2015

Does anyone have any recommendations for great clitoral stimulation toys? I have a big dildo and a vibrating butterfly that is placed to stimulate the clitoris but I don't find it effective for myself to get aroused and orgasm. Looking for toys I can use by myself, I have so much pent up energy and my orgasms are lacking, I'm so in need of some mind blowing, body quivering orgasms!

cowboy357 07/04/2015

A human tongue works great...
mechanical tongue ? I dunno if they built 1 yet..lol

There's soo many choices on the toys, it makes sense why you're asking for a recommendation...

It's a shame you can't buy n return sex toys if you don't like them.
If you could return them it'd be easier n cheaper ..

shortie72 07/05/2015

I love and have LOTS of satisfaction from my Lelo Soraya. It all very personal and I have had others but this one this one is my favorite and it certainly does an awesome job

deleted_user 07/05/2015

I had a silver bullet with remote. It vibrated and pulsated against my clitty. What a feeling. Alas, it broke. : (

newdrake308 07/06/2015

I'm definitely no expert on female anatomy or sexuality. But a bit of brainstorming had me investigating. So maybe a two or more step approach might work. Here's a site I found. While it does seem a bit lIke advertising , the idea of it makes a lot of sense. Then after the sensitizing part you can use a favorite toy. Just a thought.

newdrake308 07/06/2015

Oh sorry here's the link to what I found.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&ei=ZbCaVdXzJsOoNt6tndAH&url=http://www.libida.com/why-pumps-work-so-well-to-turn-us.html&ved=0CDYQFjAF&usg=AFQjCNFvx0O57vOMTc32KuHvKQY3Im5aRQ

newdrake308 07/06/2015

Okay dang it !!! When you get to that site just check on clitoral pumps.

shanbanan 07/07/2015

Wow that site has things on there I've never seen or heard of! It's been a really really long time since I've bought a sex toy or been in a sex shop lol

newdrake308 07/07/2015

While I do still like the term toy. Some might see it as a waste of money or time. In life play was part of learning skills that either kept us fed and comfortable or safe. Translating that in regards to being sexually healthy and happy means toys and play take on a whole different meaning. I'm glad you discovered things on that site. I truly hope you find the things that will give you the happiness and contentment you deserve. Simply put , happy shopping.

alltheprettyflowers 07/09/2015

A simple pocket rocket does wonders. This is the one I had for years and it hasn't let me down.

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/1Pc-Pink-Supre-Mini-Full-Body-Massager-Relieve-Stress-Travel-Pocket-Rocket/1785874013.html

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