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Ok, once in a while I think of my ex bf.
Usually after I've run into him or seen a status update of his on Facebook. I'm friends with him and his wife. We don't hang out but we chat and they have helped me through some things.
Me and the ex had a great relationship, and now I'm in one that's not as great and I miss the "great".
I've had dreams of having sex with him or kissing him or even getting back together. (Which would never happen....were both married and he has 2kids). Sometimes the dreams are pretty hot and I wake up super wet. Either from being aroused or I've orgasmed?
I've even had sex dreams involving his best friend. (Who tried to have sex with me when me and the ex broke up).
I never dream about other guys, random or otherwise or even my own husband. It's always the ex or his friend. And it's always so hot!
Am I weird? What does it mean? Also is it wrong that I enjoy the dreams?
Usually after I've run into him or seen a status update of his on Facebook. I'm friends with him and his wife. We don't hang out but we chat and they have helped me through some things.
Me and the ex had a great relationship, and now I'm in one that's not as great and I miss the "great".
I've had dreams of having sex with him or kissing him or even getting back together. (Which would never happen....were both married and he has 2kids). Sometimes the dreams are pretty hot and I wake up super wet. Either from being aroused or I've orgasmed?
I've even had sex dreams involving his best friend. (Who tried to have sex with me when me and the ex broke up).
I never dream about other guys, random or otherwise or even my own husband. It's always the ex or his friend. And it's always so hot!
Am I weird? What does it mean? Also is it wrong that I enjoy the dreams?
I usually dream about some woman, or women, who I HAVEN'T had sex with yet! I suppose it's because I've never had truly satisfying sex with another person. We never got to that deep level I crave. My hand has done the trick.
putting faces to the other people is the way your mind focuses on the subject. It could mean that you had "great times" with him, so you are trying to relive great times - not necessarily sexually.
You can look through this page from dream moods,
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamthemes/sex.htm
it might help you to interpret the dream, though it is somewhat harder to interpret your own dreams if you haven't done it before, mostly because you see your life one way and a dream interpreter sees the over all picture of the dream.
I have found them to be pretty on target.
I think I will try and google my dreams out of curiosity. Just wondered if anyone else ever experienced sex dreams about an ex
I see no point in being FB friends with an ex. That leaves you more vulnerable emotionally seeing his face and his postings. Don't do that to yourself.
I simply said FUCK OFF! NEVER CALL ME AGAIN! And hung my phone up