For me .. if one person's feelings have changed .. then it's a deal breaker .. I was involved in such an arrangement .. she fell for me .. so .. I had to end it ..

Being an adult sometimes means making choices that we don't really want to make ..

However .. decisions must be made that are good for both ..

From my perspective .. anyway .. hope it helps ..

thanks hun yeah i have fell hard 4 this guy 2 fast so its kinda akward

I usually develop feelings for the other person. I stick with it only to be strung along. I spent countless nights by the phone only to be stood up. I felt used. The sex was not worth losing my dignity and self-respect. I suppose it really depends on how strong you are as a person.

Raynow, I commend you on your ability to end it. I wish some of the men I have dated were man enough to do that.

Hi, sunshinebabycks26!!!
I think just sticking with the fun, once the feelings have changed often CAN be worse than nothing. The longer it continues, the more pain there may be, down the road.
Be honest with the other person and see where that leads, even if that turns out to be 'nowhere'!!
Take care and good luck!!!!

oh and this guy hasnt lead me on or anythink hes a great guy so please dont think that

sunshine remember how you met him he might just see u as a girl toy, and figure if she treated him like that IM NEXT Hows his feelings for you

have you told him how you feel I think that would be your first step I have had people get this feelings for me and I was just not in to them like that and just like raynow I had to let them know that it was not going to be that way, If you tell him you may be happy with what he has to say and if not then at least you will know and you can deal with that in your own way and time.

I tend to fall without the sex only to end up hurt anyways......... **sighs**

When real feelings surface in a causual sex relationship it is no longer casual. Someone will get hurt. You have a responsibility to yourself and your partner to end the relationship as it is.