I don't really have any experience in this particular area, but I am thinking maybe the thought of him turning to another woman did stir things up for you. I think sometimes we women do try to behave and hold back .

When I started chatting with another man, we both were very flirty. I was actually the first to dare to push the envelope. I quickly apologized and said I would behave. (Being a man, naturally he did love that) He would actually encourage me to open up and say what's on my mind . (accepting me just as I am... good, bad, and naughty) I did finally get the strength to reach deep down, toss some inhibitions aside and release my "inner perve" lol

To me, after processing things and what he did... you realize you do love him. I think this gave you permission to let loose and be yourself.... Take from this the fact that the two of you can walk away from this even stronger, more connected... giving as well as getting all that you both want . I say good for you!

I am discovering most men do love and long for us to be naughty! haha

It’s called hysterical-bonding.. it’s a real thing! It took about 3 years for it to slow down... but do not get into a rut after the urge goes away! You may find yourself right back where you were in the first place!

http://lovehonorandforgive.com/hysterical-bonding/

I have heard of the hysterical bonding which really makes since thank y'all for the replies

What about sex after a emotional affair with my wife

I’m very sexual and nasty I’ve asked her what could we do to spice up our sex life. I enjoy giving and receiving oral sex I give way more then I get. Anyway one time she mentioned could we have open marriage. Now me because of the affair this conversation took place a few months ago. I found out about the emotional affair In August read my post emotional affair by wife. Anyway I played along and she said she was only joking. Then another time she said would it be ok if she had a girlfriend. I played along for 10 minutes until she finally said she was joking. I think she’s attracted to woman she even said when she watches my porn collection. We both enjoy personal masterbation me almost daily my wife occasionally she even has toys. Any she only likes to watch the girl on girl scenes. I was so happy she admitted that to me. Shit after 18yrs of marriage and 22 yrs together u finally open up. I believe she has a dark side she was more freaky when we first met but 2 kids and 22 yra later it’s dull. Don’t get me wrong my wife’s cho cha is good but she could be more freakiy she’s 46 I’m 52 so I know a woman’s begins to lose interest. Anyway when we first met their was a girl she knew that likes her and while we were in the early stages of dating she admired that she went to a hotel with her and they kissed and she let her eat her but she didn’t return the favor.. and some times when I go to eat her she’s says no no I want the dick. Even though when I eat her, her organisms e explosive.. I actually think that her affair is and always has been with this girl.. I recently found emails sent to my wife from her thanking her putting her resume out thier. This was earlier this year. She also had emails dating back as far as 2013 that weren’t deleted, that said things like it was so good to hear ur voice this morning and hey it’s ur birthday pick out a bathing suit I’ll pay half. Even a few emails that my sent to her saying hey going to Vegas with the girls not many emails but a few. I was curious as to why she still had them more alarming the old emails. So I asked her about a month ago who was this girl she said it was the same girl from when we first started dating so I said do u still talk to her she said not in years. I said then why does she still email u. She was furious that’s it u keep looking for things theirs no trust I said but u still talk to her even took her resume she said I can’t help if she emails me my email has stayed the same. Regardless I think my wife has a dark side but whenever we talk she says she only wants me