From here on out.. I am giving nick names out to all the girls here on ds so I do not hurt their feelings.
Montana=baby
Viv = baby
Leather=baby
Flamer=baby
all ds women = baby.
That way if I scream out baby in the midle of a intense post I will not hurt anyones feelings.... hahahahhahahhahhahahahah ahahah ahahh ahahahhah I am so funny.
Yup bad matt

matt, when im dating multiples I usually call them all baby, to... prevent calling them by someone elses name by mistake, which almost happened to me before... or just forgetting someones name completely ;_;

tossedasideeeeeee! there, is that enough to make you happy -_-

1. I like guys to take charge, but sometimes they dont know what to do. So though I hate it I must. Which is another reason why I dislike virgins. It feels weird that I need to tell you...

2. It depends, if were dealing with extreme things, I WOULD prefer to know to avoid injury/discomfort/etc

3. how soon? anytime you two are comfortable talking about it???

I have never called men by their names in bed. - Honey, baby, sweetie - but never a name.. And now that I'm old, I don't remember names anymore, so I guess that's a good thing.

Well, except for Mobi - he has a special pet name..I won't tell though.

Tossed - I give instruction and I take instruction. I don't like being told what's coming - prefer to live in the moment.

Discussing sexual possibilities - right away would work fine for me, this way, I'm not wasting my time.

on sexual possibilities, seriously... i dont even remember having to have talked about it ever. i mean its like... given already...

I would prefer to say a partner's name on my own without being asked to do it; it would be more natural for me. I have found myself many times saying a partner's name when I am close to cumming or cumming. A partner might not be able to understand fully what I am saying. A partner's name normally comes out in labored gasping breaths.

Example: Ran ...Ran...Ran...! lmao

I like to take charge sometimes. I'll admit, when she calls me "Sir" I think it's pretty hot.

I used to be very verbal and bossy during sex...giving demands, correcting bad behavior, and such ..now with current bf he's always in control.

I say my partner's name quite frequently unless he would rather be called something else.

1. If my partner wants direction or if I think he needs a little help then I am more than willing to let him know. He normally calls all the shots though so he knows ;)

2. Surprise me, please! I don't want to hear what you're going to do to me, I want you to show me!

3. I don't think there is ever a point of too soon as long as both partners are open and comfortable talking about it.

1. If a partner is doing something that feels great ....I have no problem telling him not to stop and I want a partner to do the same with me.

2. For the most part I would like to be surprised.

3. I am very open and easy to talk to. If we have feelings for each other and we are feeling comfortable; I am fine with talking about it. I am not saying we are going to have sex right away. But I think it is important to discuss likes and dislikes when it comes to sex early on in the relationship.

Love dirty talk. Maybe not a play by play, but what you'd like me to do. Moans are ALWAYS appreciated. Nothing hotter than a guy moaning when you do something they like.

Feedback is always good, either moaning or talking. And I instruct the wife how, when and where for both oral and sex.

Tossed..
1. I have no problem being verbal and telling a guy what feels good and what to do to please me, its all about making each other feel good right? I would want him to do the same..
2. would rather just be surprised as whyme said just show me dont tell me.
3.no such thing as too soon if two people are into each other then why not talk about it even if it may not happen right away it gives you something to look forward too:)

1) I'm not shy about asking for what I want, but I would never give instructions, both because his following them would be quite a turn-off for me, and because he would (and I would hope he would) be more focused on putting me back in myplace than giving me what I wanted.

2)I enjoy the anticipationof knowing what's coming next, and of not knowing. Some of both keeps things interesting ^_^

3) Before I'm convinced he wants more than sex from me.

lol, i love you guys, gotta admit, recieving instruction, dirty talk & hearing his voice during sex takes me to a whole other level.

Reminds me of the movie American Pie.

Her: "say my name!"

Him: "What?"

Her: "What's my name, bitch?"