LOL!

i don't know, steak & eggs are really easy to just whip.....up. Just do it Hy, lol

yeah. i suck at that whole thing. my husband gets breakfast in bed way too often when he is actually home for it.

I mean...in retrospect it's funny...but I couldn't have done that without gulping down my own strong resentment.
Any relationship that requires that isn't worth it, as well I know, because resentment curdles into depression for me.

...I really only like being what's called a "bottom," I don't enjoy being ordered around outside the bedroom....and I'm glad I figured that out.

I'm a submissive but I rarely cook now that my kids are grown adults and on their own and the only time I've been ordered to cook was for punishment which has been on rare occasions. I'm a good cook but I don't like cooking at all. He enjoys cooking and he's a very good cook so he does about 60% of it, I do about 10% of it (my specialties) and 30% of the time we eat out. Works for me!

EAfter reading 50 shades of grey, (i read it over the last two days) it sparked a definite interest in me. Id love to hear/learn more about a submissives experiences and likes or dislikes about the life style...i have always been dominant in my relationships. Both in and out of the bedroom. But with my bf of five years, his culture is "machismo", so even though I managed to mellow him out almost to the point of submission, I decided to play along with him so as not to strip him of his culture or self.esteem. But its not as hard core as the stuff I read in the book. I call him sir sometimes(when hes really made and instructs me to do something), ive spent my fair share of time kneeling in a corner when I screwed up, and I do try my best to always make sure he is pleased with me. I dont mind it. We have never incorporated any pain or tools in it, but I dont think its something he would be.interested.
I have found that most of the time when he orders me to do something or im in trouble for doing something wrong, hes always acting in my best interest and is usually right..(he has told me a million times not to touch my phone when im driving. And so while looking for a phone number , I totalled my truck and here I am two months later, healing my broken ankle and leg...he was right!) An obvious

Damn phone
Was trying to say it should have been obvious to keep my hands off my phone when driving....but that was a good example of me being a bad girl when I was told not to do something

Yup,,you were bad, very bad indeed,,,,,,,,NO CELL PHONE FOR YOU...

Every couple's experience with BDSM practices is unique. In my relationship, we make more use of bondage and discipline and D/s than of S&M. But hubby rarely has to order me to make breakfast, I usually ask him what he'd like first ^_^