There is no better position since likes and dislikes are individual to each person. How I like it done or my partner or anyone depends on that person's likes.

I don't get why you can rim him but you're embarrassed to ask him how he wants you to do it. You want to know how he likes it best, the only way to find out is to ask him.

Agree, you're not embarrassed to DO it, but embarrassed to ASK him how he'd like you to do it? Like the words describing it are dirtier somehow than the act?

If I may post this without it getting banned...

http://www.xvideos.com/video3768396/very_horny_lesbians_tongue_assholes_and_pink_pussies_in_quest_for_orgasms

This video is hot as hell and seems to me the best position for licking the asshole. Doing it doggie-style, over-the-top of the buns, it seems to me the buns get in the way more.

My question is why? It seems pretty disgusting to me.

LOL!!! Mary your response made me bust out laughing!

I agree with Leather, if you can do such an intimate act with him then you should be able to talk about it.

To Mary.............

As a receiver and a giver I can answer your why question for us, why we enjoy it. First it's only done when freshly showered, very clean and we don't find anything disgusting about it. We are both into just about anything anal and rimming is a part of the whole picture to us.

As the receiver, the feeling is extremely pleasurable, I find it very erotic and its also great ass foreplay for anal sex or using anal toys, butt plugs, etc.

As the giver, I find it very hot, erotic in a submissive way when he tells me to do it and I am more than willing to please him. Being the /s in a D/s relationship, it also keeps me fully in the /s mindset if I'm distracted for some reason.

I agree, I should not be embarrassed to talk about it but, ahh, I am. I will ask him tho. Mary, I used to feel the same as you but to see my boyfriend get really turned on, turns me on and like leather said, we always shower first!

And shave his bung-hole. The shaving itself will be a nice, erotic experience for both of you, and will get him nice, clean and hairless for the "main event"

And hope he didn't any eggs, broccoli or beans for supper the night before.

Ha! Hopefully there was a good healthy bowel movement before where he shat that stuff out!

Leather2lace whoever your partner is, he/she is very very lucky!!!

I love rimming my Wife, unfortunetely she doesnt let me do it anymore. Just one day decided she didnt want me to do it anymore. Just like BJ's and 69's. Poof just gone off the sex menu.

Shame cuss I really love her asshole.

I also love getting rimmed but I know my WIfe would NEVER do that. Its not a game breaker for me.

OP just ask. Trust me, you asking will probably be a turn on for him and it will probably lead to good sex.

koolman,
Nice video dude !
She looks like she's bobbing for her missing car keys.

Thanks, Dogg! She really wanted it! I can't believe DS didn't delete my post that had that link! But this IS Healthy Sex, so I guess, if we can talk about sex, we can post links that SHOW it.