Nope, never been requested to include an enema. We engage in anal sex, I make sure I'm clean and I know my body well so I know if it's a good time or not to engage in anal sex.

Maybe your ex had an enema fetish?

Obviously, you're talking about anal, post lol.

I wouldn't require an enema, but I definitely wouldn't want to engage in anal after a four-course meal lol.

No anal on me please, I've been hesitant to do the penetration but nothing goes up this booty. My first was a fucking freak and I lost my virginity and she was screaming "Give it to me Camera Man, Fuck me in the Ass." That was a little extreme for my first time so I think I've been mildly traumatized but god bless her soul she was a lover.

Remember just because a man likes anal, or experiments with it, it does NOT make you gay. You might think you are not homophobic, but i think deep inside all of us men we are little thus why for most of us it is a scary place to experiment with. We have been preprogrammed by media of what is wrong or right. I know leather understands what I mean. Being gay has nothing to do with anal, and only has to do with whom we are attracted to. :)

...I could kinda see that as reasonable if he used to "toos your salad" or maybe had sufferes a uti (pretty rare for men) and you guys were having anal without a condom.... other than that... it think its pretty weird.

I've never had any specific sex prep requests. I maintain normal higene, you know, make sure I've showered an brushed my teeth at least once in thr past 24 hours, and that anything I shave doesn't get too prickely. But beyond that, no.

Nah, just those women who do not have an open mind or who have hang ups or who do not understand what extremely intense orgasms the male g-spot (prostate) can bring the guy. :)

I never understood why some people equate anal penetration done to a guy as being gay but not a blow job, not a hand job? If it's done between a man and women there's nothing gay about it. Not all gay guys even engage in anal sex, they only do it if they enjoy it, same as women.

And frankly who gives a crap if someone thinks your gay seriously? I have always been an advocate for homosexuals, had many close friends that were gay, my youngest brother is gay, buuut always felt self conscious if someone questioned my sexuailty, or thought i was gay, because maybe I felt no need to always have a girlfriend ALL the time, because I could actually take care of myself. I than thought about it, and said i am being homophobic. If I was not homophobic, i would not feel ashamed for people thinking that way about me. I know who i am.

So now I could give two rat's ass if someone things i am gay. I let them keep thinking it about me, and and standby proudly by it. It is there insecurities to even care if i am gay or not right? Right, and those kinds of people I could not care less about, and would not be my friends anyway.

I have actualyplaed that card with one of my friends when we talked about gay marriage. i said what if you found out if i was gay, would it make you uncomfortable. he said no cause I like you. i said than would you be willing to take away civil rights from a close friend just because you are a jerk? Would you be willing to do that to me, and than look me in the eye and say you are my friend? he has actually changed is attitude now about gay marriage gradually, when I confronted him, if i was gay. At the time he really was not sure if i was or not, and i did not care what he thought, cause it should not matter, or have an impact on our friendship.

It is all perception, and those that think otherwise are pretty ignorant, and really need to look n the mirror at their own insecurities of their own sexauilty.

I agree Aquarius, I don't give a damn what anyone thinks of me. The only opinion of me that matters is my opinion of myself.

Being thought to be gay can be very unsettling though if your wife/girlfriend thinks you're a closet gay because of enjoying anal penetration.

Partner's ex-wife accused him of being a pervert and gay when he suggested some butt play on him during oral, she went apeshit on him. He wasn't surprised by her reaction since she was always known as the "ice princess" of the south. Hell, she thought oral sex and screwing with lights on was extremely kinky. How he went from being a kinkster his whole adult life to marrying her boggles my mind. I know her pretty well and I can't imagine the two of them ever being together, they are so not a match at all which is why they're divorced. He said it was a very dark time in his life, he and his former partner just broke it off and the ice princess was basically a rebound relationship.