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koolman
koolman
Do you male/female couples find it easy for one person to sometimes be dominant and one person sometimes be submissive, in the bedroom and in general? Or is one person always the master and the other the slave? Or are some couples "partners" in that they always share power evenly?
koolman
koolman
I've heard of high-level executives who are in charge of entire corporations, and in the bedroom they like to be dominated pussycats, and vice versa. Either gender.
deleted_user
deleted_user
friend of mine had an online business catering to execs who wanted to be dominated she spent her day on the phone telling these men what to do and punishing the when they didn't she had them do it on cam and to take pics so she coulod see what they were doing... they paid her good bucks to do this and they never saw her. lol
deleted_user
deleted_user
Been Dom been Sub funny most dominant female ever loved to be held down and taken in bed. I just play them as they lay.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would like to be submissive, but would do what the guy wants to make him happy.. I know some guys like it when a girl takes charge sometimes.. I'm not really speaking from experience though as I really have none.lol But that's my preference
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've been dom, but like Jagiello said when it comes to vanilla sex I often love it all old-fashioned and just being taken. I suppose it's about having nothing to do except relax and be taken care of, which makes a nice change from my 'real' life.
deleted_user
deleted_user
well what i like is not a power thing it is me just wanting to worship her body and for it to be all about her.
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