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Supercoolcat1984
Supercoolcat1984

I am 36 and I have had issues with sex my whole life. I have watch porn and do fine I read and do fine I have sex with a female and I fine during sex and all those other things too it's afterwards I feel horrible in pain in penis sharp stabbing pain. And my Dr wants to put me asleep and go inside me with a camera and clear out scar tissue that I have cause from passing a lot of kidney stones. I am scared too even do it cause what If it's very serious and ruins me from every having sex again plz help. I tried of being in pain and scared something is really bad . 

Jonson
Jonson
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Jonson
Jonson
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Supercoolcat1984
Supercoolcat1984
What's this it won't load for me
Barry
Barry
It seems that you have a physical problem of scar tissue causing pain and that your doctor wants to help. Why not just let him/her go ahead and clear the tissue?
Supercoolcat1984
Supercoolcat1984
Cause it hurts I got lots of scar tissue that's why I scared
koolman
koolman
Sounds like it hurts ANYWAY. Why not let the doctor do his or her job to try and alleviate your pain?
mtd
mtd
Get a second opinion to be sure this is the correct way to handle the issue. Then it’s up to you to have the procedure or not. Sometimes we have to go through some pain before we can improve. It’s not any different than open heart surgery in the sense that if we don’t have the surgery we need...... I can understand your fear, although I’m a woman. A man’s masculinity is very important, especially at such a young age. Courage is your only option at this point, get a second opinion first. Hope all works out well, no judgment here.
Barr62
Barr62
If you are diabetic, or type 2 they call this STI .. it's normal and if you think you are not or don't know? go get checked ! for it or if your taking any certain medications that can be the cause i have learned this just 3 days ago about my issues as well
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