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Perfect man

fullmetalheart
fullmetalheart
I seriously think I've found the perfect man.... I'm glad he asked me out, he's kind and funny and caring and I can't get him off my mind.
Something good happened last night. He came for the first time ever. I don't know why but it made me cry, it made me feel so close to him....we were having sex for 3 hours and I'm pretty sure I climaxed like 30 times...

I'm really happy he's mine because we connect on such a level where he knows what I'm thinking before I say it. We often say things at the same time and our time together makes me feel amazing....

I guess I just don't understand one thing- how can this incredible man be attracted to me.... He's gorgeous, sexy eyes, adorable smile, 6 pack abs and sexy muscles, he has an amazing sense of humor and he wants me.....

I feel like he can do so much better than me... Yet he said I'm the only one he wants and he wants me forever

Never pictured myself with a military man but I'm glad he's my marine....
freakchick3175
freakchick3175
:-)
Bubbabiker
Bubbabiker
Bonnie, he's a lucky guy to have you, a beautiful woman. So be blessed you found someone that makes you happy.

Semper Fi from an old Jarhead!
DaniRae8808
DaniRae8808
He sees in you, what you don't see in yourself. You are beautiful, I can tell from your writings, your passion, your emotion. He connects with you on a level that is so different from just a "fling." I truly believe that there is someone out there just for us.....
debmitchell
debmitchell
He's as lucky as you are. ^_^
deleted_user
deleted_user
He loves you and I'm sure you are quite lovely. You are crazy in love with him, correct? A man can't resist a woman who is in love with him.
fullmetalheart
fullmetalheart
Yes I'd say I love him. I haven't been seeing him for too long. About a month but I feel so good with him. He's kind and thoughtful and I just want to be around him. I'm a lucky girl to have met him and he thinks he's the lucky one...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Girlfriend, you're both the lucky one. 1 + 1 in your case appears to make a perfect 2. Just enjoy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's so sweet. Sounds like you are both crazy for each other. Take it moment by moment and enjoy each one!!
des10ed2b
des10ed2b
a gingerbread man is the perfect man.

he is sweet. he is cute. and if he pisses you off you can literally bite his head off.
MsViv
MsViv
When I read the thread name, I thought about what the perfect man would be.
I like your answer Des, though I was thinking that the perfect man would know exactly what I wanted when I wanted it. Would take out the garbage, cook me dinner, clean the house, go grocery shopping, take the dog out, do the dishes, and be there for me whenever I want sex...
Oh wait, I think I want a wife...
koolman
koolman
fullmetal: Honey, don't beat yourself down like that. The very qualities you see in yourself as liabilities, he sees as assets. Obviously, your uncertainty about yourself and vulnerability are very attractive to him.
debmitchell
debmitchell
But a gingerbread man doesn't keep you warm on cold nights. Or take out the trash. Or change the oil.

Or stop you biting his head off.