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fullmetalheart 12/05/2013

Today just happens to be the perfect day for cuddling. I'm freezing my ass off right now wishing I had a boyfriend who would be willing to cuddle with me. Big ol blanket, Mob movies, coffee ( I dont know about anyone else but I can drink coffee no matter what time of day or night.) I'd bake cookies or something sweet and just relax. Maybe some sexy time if ya know what I'm saying.

Lol I don't know, the holiday season really bums me out when i'm by myself...

deleted_user 12/05/2013

I'm sorry about that. I don't mind being by myself. Better than being abused!

MsViv 12/05/2013

When you say by yourself, what do you mean? That you are completely alone or that you don't have a boyfriend?

fullmetalheart 12/06/2013

Being alone is totally better than being abused.

Right now I'm with my mom but she doesn't talk too much so it's awkward . But she does sit on the couch with me.. So I guess I have some company

koolman 12/06/2013

I live in South Florida so can't relate to the "freezing my ass off" at the moment, but I did live in CO for 6 years, so I remember full well the "freezing my ass off"!

Except for the coffee (I'll take tea) that all sounds good, fullmetal!

heyjules 12/06/2013

One of my most favorite things in the world is to snuggle, watch movies, and sexy time. Kids and work get in the way!! 9 whole degrees here today!!!

deleted_user 12/06/2013

Hot Chocolate is yummy. Here in Southeast Indiana the snow is falling down!

MrMG 12/06/2013

I try to snuggle or cuddle with my wife but she gets upset. My hands have a mind of their own and my rod starts getting stiff and she starts, "Can't you just lay here without getting horny?" To which I reply, "Well if you were so beautiful..." to which she responds, "I've got a headache", and that is my cue to leave frustrated once again.

deleted_user 12/06/2013

That is too bad, MrMG. Sounds like my X. Only he was the one who always said no. Have you and your Lady Love tried therapy?

fullmetalheart 12/06/2013

Maybe she honestly has a headache?

deleted_user 12/07/2013

All the time? My serial cheater of an X had a headache for decades. Sounds like she needs therapy.

fullmetalheart 12/08/2013

Maybe she doesnt have a headache.
But I used to get really bad migrains. I'd actually go blind and not be able to get out of bed. I would get them sometimes as much as 17 days a month. Ive been put on meds for them and now I only get them once a month

awesomeself 12/08/2013

It's actually chilly here today, by SoCal standards. Perfect day for hot drinks, movies, snuggling, and of course sex! Since it's just my kids and myself right now, we're doing hot chocolate and Christmas cartoons . . .

Shiftinggal 12/08/2013

Wishing I had a s/o as well. I'd make us some hot coffee and just sit on the couch and watch movies all day while cuddling under a blanket.

MrMG 12/09/2013

Actually we speak different Love Languages. Mine is physical touch and her's is Acts of Service. Now that we both understand exactly what that means, our love life has improved by leaps and bounds.

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