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tossedaside 02/19/2008

Another member suggested I post this for everyones comments or amusement??? Have any of you been physically scarred from a sex act that you willingly participated in?
For instance, on the evening of my 18th Bday at a party, which was raided, a young lady asked for a ride home in which she gave me a BDAY BJ. It was quite painful to say the least and I simply thought it was lack of experience. What I had failed to realize was the young lady had some serious grill work {braces} and now I have the scars to prove it. Almost gives me a ribbed for her texture LOL but unfortunatly may have cost me some growth and has definately stopped ejaculation from oral sex bummer. Any similar experiences or adventures?

deleted_user 02/19/2008

LOL I HAD A BUDDY THAT WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING .MAN SHE CHEWED HIM UP PRETTY BAD .HE WORE LOOSE WARM UPS FOR A WHILE AND KINDA HAD THE BOW LEGGED THING HAPPENING.

tossedaside 02/19/2008

Yes, for lack of better terminology IT sucks, ruined a pair of shorts and stained the hell out of my Levis lol

deleted_user 02/19/2008

I'm sorry.. But... LMAO

I had this happen to a friend of mine in high school.. He ended up going to the doctor because of it.. OMG.. I wish I could'a heard him explaining THAT to the doc. But they had him put triple antibiotic cream on it and wear lose underwear.. boxers

Good luck, hope it isn't permanent. It would really suck not to be able to enjoy oral. Sorry man...

deleted_user 02/19/2008

and the moral of the story is ... just because they have pretty faces dont let the worm pass between the braces!

deleted_user 02/19/2008

I FEEL FOR YA THERE.HE WAS NEVER THE SAME AFTER THAT.4 OR 5 YEARS BEFORE HE ACCEPTED ANOTHER BJ THEN HE ALWAYS CHECKED OUT THE TEETH BEFORE HAND

deleted_user 02/19/2008

Forgive tossed but that is a bit too funny tho got to believe it hurt like hell. Damm real bummer that you no longer can cum thru oral.

Wonders if this girl has damaged anyone else

tossedaside 02/19/2008

great moral to the story line and as Im now 47 I think its probably permanent ABC and how is Mommy and the new born Dom? doing today?

tossedaside 02/19/2008

I really don't think any one else had that particular pleasure from her again, She later became a minister LOL true story

deleted_user 02/19/2008

LMAO...she HAD to become a minister as no boys would come within 20 foot of her after that nightmare! Too funny...but so sorry for you pain and suffering. You should SUE! lol

deleted_user 02/19/2008

Randy - I'm am so sorry but you have given me a visual and I can't stop laughing. You just need to experience a GOOD BJ again.

firespinner 02/19/2008

thankfully nufin bad like that no but i was once caught wiv my boyfriend by the police maybe not so much scarring but very very embarassin and i wont forget x

koolman 02/19/2008

Wow, wish I had such a similar adventure...thank God she didn't bite it off! Perhaps a little too much ANGER that night (since the party was raided)?

tossedaside 02/19/2008

that could be, Kool. thought I was doing a favor giving her a lift home, If i would have known I might of let her walk,, no way chivalry would have taken over and who wants to be alone on there 18th Bday,, oh the pain of teen sexuality and the embarassing reality of adult sexual adventures

deleted_user 02/19/2008

LOL.. Sorry Tossed, I just assumed from my half-asleep mind, that it had healed for you, not completely reading today.. Still getting used to that lack of sleep thing.. haha.. Doing good though. Thanks for the hug.

As someone said, you just need about 20 GOOD blow jobs to help you forget about that one PAINFULLY bad blow job..

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