Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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tossedaside 05/03/2013

Of a suitable partner, are there significant aspects that stymie a fulfilling sex life for you?
Something physical, psychological.

If so, are there countermeasures employed yo disguise or block the issue.

tossedaside 05/03/2013

"to" not yo damnit okie lol

Dave17 05/03/2013

Hmmm... not sure what you are asking. Could you rephrase?

tossedaside 05/03/2013

K, Dave, its like this for me, and it shouldnt be
My self esteem is poor, psychological, so I often come on too strong
I have a left hand that appears to be made from left over "terminator" parts, after the crushing scene, not exactly as functional as normal, therefore I prefer to have my love interest on my right side, weird, I know

deleted_user 05/03/2013

For me, it is mainly my disability due to MS. I have difficulty walking, if I didn't I would have done that Love Spell to bring My Knight, My One And Only, My One True Love, into my life and would be way too busy having Tantric Sex to post on this website!

Dave17 05/03/2013

Hmmm.. I'm not trying to blow off the question.

Just not sure how to answer.

At times I have trust issues when it comes to women... and that can cause a certain lack of "function" ifyouknowwhatimean

that certainly gets in the way. Especially if the woman gets bitchy about it. DAMN that is a serious mood killer.

LisaACOA 05/03/2013

I have had three back surgeries and I have metal in my back. I am not fragile but I can't take real hard banging anymore. I am a BBW... I know if i was thinner I would be more confident. I love sex and I really love to please but I think I try to please even more to make up for my weight.

gina666 05/03/2013

@Lisa I think your beautiful and your so sweet.I would totally bang you if I was a guy :) I get the weight thing but not seeing it on you

Bubbabiker 05/03/2013

Lisa, you're a Sweetheart!!

nancyneds2 05/03/2013

I think for me, it is self esteem as well. I can be so hard on myself. I put limitations on myself.

When I don't feel loveable, I tend to push people away.

I also put too many things on my plate. It leaves me too busy and feeling too crazed and stressed.

Okie, Its my right side that doesn't work as well

awesomeself 05/03/2013

I dislike my tummy and boobs enough to make me not want to be on top at all. I already don't like that position much, but the insecurities about my front being on display just make it so much worse.

deleted_user 05/03/2013

Self esteem. I too have issues with my tummy and am self conscious of it. I also have a hard time focusing on what I am getting too worried about pleasing my partner.

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