My first time was a shock too. My first sexual partner was on her period and we started up some foreplay. Half way through she told me about her situation and went down on me. I was so scared that I didn't know what to do. But once I realized that she enjoyed it, I laid back and enjoyed myself. I believe that the reason you are experiencing some issues simply has to do with your mind set. Talk it over with her and let her know that this is an unexplored area for you. I get the impression that she is more experienced than you so let her teach you. Ask her what she likes and dislikes and don't be shy if you don't know something or how to perform a particular act. Let her teach you and you both will be happy.

I've seen a few men post on this forum that they can't cum from oral sex alone, so it must not be uncommon. Relax and enjoy all the new experiences!

I usually can not cum from Oral alone unless I get my mind into it . I have a few times and well the lady doing it was really good at it too and that helps.

Try to relax and enjoy the experience Like Awesome said. You may be surprised what can happen.

Is there something in your unconcouse that is telling you not to ? I know I had a hard time with it for the longest time, because I didnt want to offend the lady I was with.

Not at all uncommon, there are several who hold back unintentionally.
Just keep letting her try all the while communicatingwhat does and does.not make you feel good. Then in time, its very possible her tongue swirl will make you blast off to another world. Not every person perceives or enjoys the same pleasure using the.same combination of techniques, dont be afraid.to.switch it up, maybe even help her out just a.little. most of all. Never ever never complain about getting head. Even bad head is.good.




Unless braces and blood come.into play. Jmo

Peter, most men, hmmm, would that info. Be from a study/survey? Or is.that just your opinion. Just asking

self-love too much???

Yea there are a lot of guys who cant cum from oral sex. my bf is one of them... well he can cum , after a lonnnnnng time , and with the help of a hand. it used to bother me, but i know that i please him so it doesnt anymore. if its not all its cracked up to be, tell the girl your with how it would be what its cracked up to be. If you dont enjoy something she is doing.. gently tell her what she should be doing. And if she does something that you do enjoy , encourage her to do that more often.

I was a good boy,lol, I waited to have sex, until I was 19....and I remember the girl I was going out wiht, she was more sexually prolific than I was at the time, and when she reached over and grabbed my cock, I damn near jumped up and hit my head, on the ceiling,lmao..after that, I got used to it real fast,haa