Lights on and mirrors. I'm very visual and love seeing everything that's going on.

i dont mind either way. im not exactly in shape, so as long as they dont mind my body, i dont mind either

Usually on, and sometimes I like candlelight.

Off

I'm self-conscious. I have never been what I would deem 'sexually enlightened'. Sex has always been just 'ok' and I have never been encouraged by a partner to open up more. Unfortunately, part of the problem is due to my relationships with really passive people. I have all these wild and dark fantasies, but they never play out because in real life, I'm a puss who won't act on them and my partners have never tried to get me out of my shell. They just went with the flow. "oh ok, I guess she likes the lights off. Well, whatever, ok." lol

mobi have the wifey put on your tanning lotion.. don't need cancer there ! ;D

To Phabatropolis, when you were with a partner, did you ever tell him you want him to help you push through your inhibitions?

ha depends on if they are on or off when we make it to the room

Either/or and don't much care.

On or off, It don't matter.

@mobi:

honey, i didn't say my nekky pics would put your eyes out. I said the sight would kill you of a heart attack due to the horror. I like me well enough, however, I think it's fair to say that the cellulite fairy did errr . . . . (looking both ways) . . . . . . (cough cough cough) . . . . beat me to death with her wand!!!! that darn fairey had friends I tell ya. I was ganged up on. Now all I have left is cellulite and tons of it.


Soooo, it simply makes no sense what so ever, to show anyone any nekky pics of me. Why should I be tried for involuntary man slaughter just because I dared to send some poor soul nekky pics????? If you don't understand, it's okay . . . I know the rest of the world will rest safely tonight, not knowing the potential demise nations just because, some poor crazed woman got ahold of a camera and thought . . . . self portrait????

Rest easy Mobi, my love, you will live to see yet another day.

(walking away mumbling - "another life spared, it's a good day".)

Leatherandlace, no I never said how I feel because again, I'm a puss lol Maybe one day I will get the courage up :)

Either or, it doesn't matter

I forgot to say why,..
Because my boyfriend is so hot, and I don't want to miss a thing.

It depends on what kinda mood I am in and if the video camera is working or not lol.

I like both. Lights on, I can enjoy looking at him, and see how he looks at me. Lights off... well... sometimes, it's fun to not be able to see what he's doing.