im a freak about cleanliness too i use baby wipes instead of toilet paper(i keep them in my purse) as well as feminine spray. i wasnt always like this but a girl i work with always smells like rotten tuna i dont know if she cant smell herself but everyone talks about it behind her back, how do u tell someone something like that without hurting their feelings? so it has made me selfconscious about my own cleanliness and i make sure i am clean because i tend to sweat alot down there. i also have perfume and a stick of deodorant in my purse which i use several times a day

Being clean is a must for me. I also prefer flushable wipes to toilet paper.

Cleanliness is a priority for me also since i work out so much and especially when it's summer ! lol

Lol ... I use baby wipes too! Well...ya know for #2 ...

Umm eegads michelle... that must be just awful to be around her if she smells like that.
Its really too bad and its a tough call because you dont want to actually hurt her feelings - even though you would be saving her from possible current or future heart ache. I mean people can be mean at times... there just isn't an easy solution to that one, that I can see.

Maybe she needs to get the water closer to her vag jay jay... sometimes the water in the shower isnt close enough to even touch so she cant really wash that well. Maybe she just needs a hand held shower head- so she can wash more easily or effectively . Also possible she just doesnt shower - I have read that there is info out there that says because the vag is "self cleaning" you dont need to wash there. Well I call bullshit on that one. You do need to. Not scrubbing like crazy or anything...LOL just wash well.
Glad to know Im not the only one here - There is just NO way I can take a 10 min shower - it takes me 5 mins alone... just to wash all of the soap out of my hair.

I need it clean also. Especially my body. Just to give you a small idea of how bad I can get. Well I use to work at a few fast food restaurants in highschool and college. Sometimes I had to clean the restrooms. Girl, let me tell you that the men's room some how always turns out raunchy. Good night, piss on the floor as well as toilet paper. Soap everywhere. Water on the ground. Simply vulgar.
On the contrary, the ladies rooms are always clean. They even smell nice. No toilet paper on the floor or pee either.

Anyways, this is how bad. I walk into the men's restroom to take a leak. When I'm done, I use a paper towel to flush and I quickly dart out of the way so it won't spray in my face. I throw the paper towel into the trash can. I turn on the yucky faucet, put soap into my hands, lather up really good, rinse under the running water, get a few paper towels, go back to the faucet, push back on the faucet with the paper towels, get more soap, wash a second time, rinse, use the paper towels to turn off the water faucet if it doesn't turn off buy itself. Use the paper towels, to push the lever to get more paper towels. Throw the paper towels into the garbage can. Rip out the new paper towel, dry my hands, swing open the door with the of paper towels, quickly toss them into the trash can, the escape through the door before it closes on me.

After doing the above, I feel confident that I'm not carrying any fecal material from the disgusting restroom that I just been in.

i find i cant cleanse myself good in the shower so ill take a bath first to clean my cookie first and then stand up and shower the rest of me, also sometimes ill lay in the tub with my legs up on the wall and let the water from the faucet fall directly on my cookie, not only is it cleaning me but most of the time i can get an orgasm this way as well 2 for 1 special. lol

Oh I'm a clean freak, you can never be too clean in that area.

I've only been with one woman who stank. Of course, she always wanted oral and i just couldn't do it. I've been with a couple women who are so overly concerned about their smell that they are inhibited and won't let me go down on them. Nine time out of ten, its perfectly fine and i'd rather smell your natural musk than some damn baby wipe. Be clean but don't be obsessive. Might back fire on you!

I agree Bitn, I do not use anything that has a perfume or fragrance. I mean I wash well and keep fresh and clean that way. I do not use deodorant or anything like that in such a sensitive place. I agree with you, a natural smell is much better then something that is masking the smell. If I smelt a fragrance on a man I'd wonder what he was trying to hide. As long as he has good hygiene practice I'm good :)

I like to be clean, and ALWAYS wash before getting into bed- because I don't know if I'm going to end up having sex, and a clean pussy is an invitation to be licked in my opinion.

I'm glad my current partner lathers up his downstairs frequently enough- my ex was uncircumcised and didn't wash anywhere near often enough to prevent what we brits affectionately (read- disgustedly) call "Knob cheese"...........looks like curd cheese, smells like cheese and sweat and nobody wants to know what that manky stuff tastes like! I would avoid going down on him unless he'd gotten out of the shower, or we were IN the shower. Taking down his boxers was like the suspense part of a horror movie.

I use femfresh to wash my pussy with, which I do two or 3 times a day. You may think that's stating the obvious, but when I was in Uni, a girl i shared a block with used to wash once a week and change her underwear just as frequently to "cut down on expenses". Cut down on potential cock too.

I am very clean, but only use unscented, natural, nontoxic products. If you use baby wipes or feminine sprays try using them on your hand and then lick your hand. Then you will know what your man is tasting and it usually is not very pleasant. Perfume and chemicals do not taste much better than sweat, and sometimes taste worse. Some adult toy stores sell flavored wipes and cleansers. Those clean you up and make you smell and taste yummy.

You also need to be conscious of keeping your pH level normal. Using wipes, cleansers and other chemical products can throw your pH off and if you are a woman and your pH is off you are more susceptible to infections and bacterial overgrowth which can leave you smelling really bad.

Oh LOL Mdio ... you have me laughing here - thanks! Your description of the cheese( ... eww I cant even imagine blech) ...well umm horror movie yes... AHHHHH... forget the chainsaw!!! Hes got the cheese....! in his boxers....! and he is breaking the door down ....! Run! AHHHHH!!

Well Im going to clarify because this would NOT be a good thing- I totally agree with Tantrica on the pH situation ... thats why women should NEVER EVER douche. I use NON FRAGRANCE wipes. And I dont use them on the rosebud (thought since we use all these cute terms- really like the cookie one) even though they are non fragranced. I think you can be TOO clean! Thats why showering is good enough. I agree and I think the natural scent is nice and thats what you are supposed to smell like.

I was talking about the #2 job -regarding the baby wipes- alot easier and cleaner than toilet paper.
I was just thinking that women have a harder time keeping clean because mens butt- holes are alot father away from their "love wand." Maybe Im wrong and its just as difficult.

lladyfair, you said:

"I was just thinking that women have a harder time keeping clean because mens butt- holes are alot father away from their "love wand."

LOL!!! That is so funny! I like your terminology :)

I was just thinking that women have a harder time keeping clean because mens butt- holes are alot father away from their "love wand." Maybe Im wrong and its just as difficult.

Yeah, but they've got all that "stuff" in the way that obstructs the path. At least we have a pretty clear path unless you have huge "beef curtains" to coin brokeneye's term.

You are not a weirdo at all!
I have to be super clean too.

Now here is a gross story.....I worked in a cardioligists office and the bathroom was right next to a very tiny reception desk...I heard him in there pee-ing, flush the toilet and he came right out!!!!!!!
No water, no handwashing.....he picked up the phone to make a call and then wanted to hand the phone to me!!!!!
Ugh!!!! NOOOOOOO.
I did not work there very long!