What are you looking for? What is your avatar anyway??? Looks like something from Star Wars or something?????

It's definately not Star Wars Sing. Take a closer look. It's quite risque'

Ok....I see a male form....and a woman form....in front of a waterfall.....they're kissing....and it looks like she's going for some Certs or something.....

No, she's look for a throat lozenge. lol

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...............now I see it........

They're playing hide the sausage.....I like that game....

What do you expect being on a sex board? You don't have to be friends with everyone who requests friendship, it's your choice who you add. Nothing wrong with your avatar if you want my opinion. If I was happily married personally I wouldn't be adding any male friends, but that is just my two cents.

There are lots of women on sex boards who are able to make female friends and as far as male friends. Do you really think I should not talk or be friends with men. My husband has female friends. It doesn't mean he is doing anything wrong. It was a very close minded statement.

Clearly I have asked the wrong question here. I will take it somewhere else.

I don't add 90% of the people that request me..male or female. I don't think there's anything wrong with you having male friends as long as the boundaries are clear.

The Healthy Sex forum is my outlet forum. But I am also a part of the rape forums and family issues forums and my journals reflect those journeys. I don't want to share those journals with just anyone.

Well I really like your avatar! It is sexy, sensual, and easy on the eyes. I think you should keep it. I am happily married also, but I have always been able to make friends with women. I have to watch boundaries though, some like to take them and throw them out the window if you allow it. ;)

But I do enjoy all the flirting I can take though! You should enjoy the DS boards, it is not like you are saying anything and no one sees it.

I guess it depends on why you came to these boards. I didn't come here to add a million friends or look for anything more than to help when able. I don't care who you talk too, that is your decision not mine. I was just saying if I was happily married I don't need male friends off of a sex board to be my friend. Does your husband have female friends on a sex board? I was just stating what I'd do, I personally don't care what you do or who you talk too. Close minded has nothing to do with my opinion.

no......avatar is fine.......still can't make it out.....though./

i like your avi...xo

ok, this is my thought. As a married woman of 13yrs. Ive been here 4 awhile. Personally i wouldnt change my pic 4 any1. the only reason id change it is if i no longer wanted it there.

As far as male friends. well, here just like everywhere else some men can be pigs. u just have 2 figure out who r the good 1s and who arent. I have a few male friends here that i talk 2 daily. We have good relationships. theyre not sexual. I like it b/c if im needin an unbiased male pov. i know where i can turn. and if my h is doin somethin i dont understand from a female perspective. Well, tg i have those friends.
Thx guys u know who u r.