Healthy Sex Support Group
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Hey guys and gals
So I'm a large breasted woman who is "above average". I love sexy bras and underwear, but realistically it makes no sense for me to wear them. Plus I can't find my size half the time unless I go to a specialty store and then I'm looking at $100-200 per bra! I don't have that kind of money, and frankly I don't think its worth it to get just what I'm looking for.
I'd rather have a blah looking bra that's comfortable even if it is less than appealing. I'm also not a huge fan of thongs. The constant feeling of something up my ass? No thanks lol. I get why people wear them, and why men and women find them appealing and attractive/sexy.
Is it a must for bras and panties to be all lacy and sexy in order to be attractive to the male eye? I know my husband would love me to have a nice pair of sexy undies and a lacy bra, and I dont. Not because I don't want to please him, but because they are so damn expensive and I feel they are less than flattering on me and uncomfy.
Looking for men and women to chime in-thanks!
So I'm a large breasted woman who is "above average". I love sexy bras and underwear, but realistically it makes no sense for me to wear them. Plus I can't find my size half the time unless I go to a specialty store and then I'm looking at $100-200 per bra! I don't have that kind of money, and frankly I don't think its worth it to get just what I'm looking for.
I'd rather have a blah looking bra that's comfortable even if it is less than appealing. I'm also not a huge fan of thongs. The constant feeling of something up my ass? No thanks lol. I get why people wear them, and why men and women find them appealing and attractive/sexy.
Is it a must for bras and panties to be all lacy and sexy in order to be attractive to the male eye? I know my husband would love me to have a nice pair of sexy undies and a lacy bra, and I dont. Not because I don't want to please him, but because they are so damn expensive and I feel they are less than flattering on me and uncomfy.
Looking for men and women to chime in-thanks!
You can put a gift in fancy wrappings or in a plain brown paper bag, still the same gift!
I also agree with Bubbabiker, men usually don't care as long as they are gettin' the "goodies"..... LOL!!!
And I like that men don't care about the "wrapping" just what's underneath :)
however, there are those time when i like to feel pretty. if you would like to steer away from traditional lingerie i use a couple other fun things that turn on the sexing vibe.
my personal favorite is a sarong. and they do have plus size sarongs available out there. they are awesome cause they drape. they loose flowie drape keeps the eyes guessing. whether its covering the whole torso or just the hips it can be very alluring.
now this next item there are many different style to choose from in differing price ranges and qualities, but for big girls they really are the way to go. corsets. a busty vixen in a well worn corset i have seen many a man (or woman) loose their ability to speak.
*piiring* that was my chiming lol
I would wear it for my husband if he asked me to but I would not wear it every day. For everyday wear, I choose comfort over sexy. But for an intimate occasion, I choose sexy.
Your husband just want to keep things spicy It seems. Just be confident and sexy with your man. He should wear something sexy for you too.
Thanks all! I appreciate all the responses. Comfort is the way to go, but I agree it would be nice to please my husband and have something sexy for those intimate times!
Meet him at the door like that when he gets home from work.
:)
Nice suggestion OTM!!