talking dirty is very hot! i am not much of a dirty talker, but I am starting to like saying little things that are so unexpected from me. when you are in the moment...it can become natural to you...just start with little things like i want to f... you and progress from there with the other names as you call them.

I never thought I'd be much of a dirty talker, but my boyfriend would start talking dirty when he knew I was going to have an orgasm, and I started doing the same for him. Now if I just hear any of the words we use I start to get hot.

If this is not you .. and you are trying .. for me .. is enough ..
Maybe talk to her .. ask her for some suggestions ..
Above all .. be who you are .. we have no need to be who we are not .. just to please someone else ..
In kind caring .. Ray

I really need to go but want to add a little bit here. I don't think it is talking dirty. I don't like that term. I think it is talking seductively. I think when it becomes dirty it can be abussive, like telling someone you want to fuck them. Maybe a person who has been abused might be attracted to this for various reasons. But I would be turned off if my wife said that to me. But if she said she really felt like licking my penis, hoooold on. As long as it's true and not just made up, doesn't get any better than that for me. So I prefer seducative, words designed to be really honest and stimulating.

just say what your feeling man...I love to be vocal...it increases the pleasure.

My boyfriend says...

1) You want my rock hard cock, don't you?
2) Do you like when I fuck you/that p----?
3) I want to lick your p-----. or I love the taste of your p.
4) You want me deep inside of you, don't you?
5) f---/ride my cock.
6) I want you to come all over my balls/my face.
7) Your p- feels so good on my cock.
8) Sit on my face and ride it.

He also catches my eye from across the room when no one is looking and he licks his lips, subtly moves his tongue up and down, or just gives me "the look".

Now I'm all hot and bothered. GOD - I LOVE HIM!!!

HLS...that is HOT!!!

wow all this dirty talk lol let me get back at ya on that one when my bf gets home i will see what he all says tonight to me lol i just get so worked up in the moment everything he says sounds dirty to me and turns me on so i guess i will pay more attention and let ya know

when a man is vocal it really turns me on. he doesnt have to say anything, just moans or noises is enough. i am in love with my bf and when we were making love i screamed for him to f--- me! i think i shocked the both of us, i dont know where that came from

Get the book titled, "Talking Sexy To The One You Love".

It will give you some ideas and you will be really comfortable making up your own stuff... You won't even have to think about it so it doesn't sound reherssed.

you can start yoru dirty talk before you get home, send a txt or email, phone your gf, tell her you are thinking of sliding you fingers into her wet p.... or that you want to bend her over the kitchen table when you get home and eat some chocolate sce off her.
Set some scenes to get each other heated and it will go from there.

I'LL ADMIT IT...I LIKE DIRTY TALK...GIVING AND RECEIVING...IT'S A TURN-ON...LETTING MY PARTNER HEAR WHAT I WANT TO DO TO HIM AND EQUALLY PLEASING HEARING HIM DO THE SAME FOR ME...I LIKE TO USE TEXT...PHONE...E MAILS TO AROUSE MY PARTNER, KNOWING THAT WE WILL BOTH ENJOY...IT MAY TAKE A LITTLE TIME TO GET USED TO IT, BUT IT GETS EASIER WITH PRACTICE...IF IT IS SOMETHING YOU WISH TO EXPLORE FURTHER...MAYBE, TELL HER WHAT YOU WANT TO DO TO HER JUST BEFORE YOU DO IT AND VERBALISE EACH DETAIL ETC...THAT MIGHT HELP YOU TO START IT...