Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
I am a man who been married for 7 years. I can have sex for two hours and have no orgasm. My wife on the other hand can have 1 or 2. I always feel like I'm almost there but never arrive. I know it is weird because it usually the other way around. My wife isn't tight enough for me. When I jerk off, no problem there. I can cum in 1 or 2 minutes when i jerk. But with my wife I can't. It is not really enjoyable at all. I don't know I am so focus to have an orgasm that I jinx myself or if this is a real problem. Can anyone help me. I desparately wan't great sex with my wife.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/kegel-exercises/WO00119
If this works there are benefits for both of you, you will be able to cum and your wife's orgasms will be more intense.
I am also able to go long periods before I cum and some of my girls in past would start out tight but after a couple hours...they would get loose...so we experimented with positions that closed them up more.