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My Fiance's Fetish

Babbit
Babbit
Recently my fiance admitted to me that he has strange fetish. Apparently he gets sexually aroused and thoroughly enjoys wearing diapers (and using them). I told him upfront that it was strange to me but I would accept him because I love him. However, I am having problems doing that. I find it completely gross and I don't wanna know when he is doing it. This has been part of his life so long that I know he will not ever stop, so how do I live with it if I can't stand the thought of it and he can't ever stop it?
deleted_user
deleted_user
If it's a 'true' fetish, it's something he'll need in his life and most likely eventually he'll want you to be involved probably with age play. It's called AB/DL (adult baby/diaper lovers).

I'm into all sorts of kinks but that would be a deal-breaker for me. I see nothing wrong with it, if that's someone's turn-on then that's their turn-on but it would be a deal breaker because we wouldn't be sexually compatible.

The questions that need to be answered are, can it work for him without you ever being involved at all? Can you honestly live with the fact that this is a sexual fetish of his and not have any bad feelings or resentments towards him because of it?

Here are some links on it.

http://understanding.infantilism.org/

http://understanding.infantilism.org/abdl_practices.php

http://www.maximumawesome.com/pervfriday/adultbaby.htm
deleted_user
deleted_user
What a big baby........
deleted_user
deleted_user
Since this isn't something that you are into I hope that you both can talk about this and work through it. Have you had a heart to heart about this fetish he has. Have you both had a chance to openly share how you are both feeling? I wish you all the best. It's one fetish that I have no desire for and it would be a deal-breaker for me.