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Middle aged sex

newdrake308
newdrake308
This a part of something I posted on Facebook about the joys of middle age.
I thought you folks might enjoy it.
Sex when you're older : One hour of discussion and contemplation of whether the energy expended is worth it. 45 minutes of foreplay. Followed by a 5 minute rest period. 30 minutes of oral. Followed by a 10 minute rest period. 20 minutes in any given position. Followed by a 30 minute rest period. Then a 2 hour post orgasmic nap. After that comes the customary taking of pain relievers in case of cramps or injury.
shortie72
shortie72
And here I was thinking I was middle aged, but certainly no pain relief for me, just round 2.
Maybe I'm not as old as I thought
leather2lace
leather2lace
Hmmm........so 45 minutes foreplay, 30 minutes oral, 20 minutes any given position equals 95 minutes of hot, sweaty, wet, fun. Even the in-between rest periods if done in a hot, exciting, torturous way, like some T&D.........oh yeah, it all sounds just about right to me. ;)

Pain relievers, nah. I enjoy feeling the aftereffects of a damn good time and if there are marks too........all the better.
Bubbabiker
Bubbabiker
Rest period....naw. Just nonstop hard rough sex works for me and the wife! Well, the only rest is having her change positions. LOL
LAC2cali
LAC2cali
If that is what I have to look forward to, I better work harder at the gym so I won't need all the rest periods/nap! LOL!!

When the term middle age is used, is it a feeling? or an actual point in your life when you know you are in the middle? I've always wondered that.
leather2lace
leather2lace
LAC: Middle-age to me is nothing more than a number, it just means you're in the middle of the life cycle.

I'll be 57 in a few weeks so I'm actually past mid-life and am closer to end of life (unless I live to be 114) but I don't feel any different than I did 30 years ago. I have always taken very good care of myself, I still do everything I did years ago, I've always been very active, I always ate healthy and I refuse to get old.
MsViv
MsViv
Leather I don't feel any different than I felt 30 years ago either. Yet I would never want to do those 30 years over again.

I was also kind of thinking about the middle aged sex since I am past it also. But I'm sure I could keep up with them there Young'n's. Not that I would want a young one anymore. Been there, done that. He would have to be pretty damn fantastic for me to even consider it. And I'm not just talking sexually. A great mind. Independent AND. Sexually experienced.
Hell He would need all that so he could keep up with me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think the mind or spirit ages like the body. I can't believe I have lived this long!!! Seems like yesterday I was 30!!!!
koolman
koolman
Funny! And let's factor in 2 hours of conversation about issues completely unrelated to sex BEFORE the 45 minute conversation of whether the energy expended on sex is worth it! Whew! No WONDER the middle-aged are tired!
MsFrustrated
MsFrustrated
leather2lace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You said it lady!!!
yorman1
yorman1
As I have always said I like your style leather, great attitude....life is to live...we will be dead for a longtime..:)