Healthy Sex Support Group
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OK so I think I have this all figured out, if not then you guys can enlighten me. I think my wife is using this other guy to fulfil her sexual needs. He will get her all turned on with phone sex, and I will reap the rewards from that.
The sad part is I don't think he would be very happy if he knew I was pumpin her hard while he was on the other end of the phone listening to her moaning and groaning. She is going through menopause and was nowhere near this horny when she was normal and I think this phone FWB was the catalyst she needed to fullfill her erotic desires! She wants us both and the thought of one of us not being in her life is like a death in the family to her!
I really didn't want to have sex last night but she asked me so I did it anyway and I did it hard cos I was mad and unfortunately, she loved every minute of it and even wanted more! Is that F.... up or what? I don't think I know her anymore and I was wondering if the menopause is the cause?
He is suppose to come up this weekend to visit her and she talked about bringing condoms with her. I guess that means we have an open marriage and I will remind her of that if she comes home and tells me all the details. Then I will start looking for a date for the following weekend, ......maybe,.....I dunno,.... just a thought
What do u fine people think?
The sad part is I don't think he would be very happy if he knew I was pumpin her hard while he was on the other end of the phone listening to her moaning and groaning. She is going through menopause and was nowhere near this horny when she was normal and I think this phone FWB was the catalyst she needed to fullfill her erotic desires! She wants us both and the thought of one of us not being in her life is like a death in the family to her!
I really didn't want to have sex last night but she asked me so I did it anyway and I did it hard cos I was mad and unfortunately, she loved every minute of it and even wanted more! Is that F.... up or what? I don't think I know her anymore and I was wondering if the menopause is the cause?
He is suppose to come up this weekend to visit her and she talked about bringing condoms with her. I guess that means we have an open marriage and I will remind her of that if she comes home and tells me all the details. Then I will start looking for a date for the following weekend, ......maybe,.....I dunno,.... just a thought
What do u fine people think?
It's only an open marriage if both partners want and agree to an open marriage. Stbxh and I decided to have an open marraige at the time we both decided we wanted a divorce. We do not have sex with each other or try to turn the other on and we certainly don't tell each other about our sexapades. He knows I'm in NC for a few weeks with my partner but what partner and I do is between my partner and I. Whatever stbxh does on the side is between him and whoever he does it with. Until we actually divorce, we life together as friends/roommates, no hurting each other, no guilt, no disrespecting each other.