watching a man window wash is a big turn on for me

Interesting study. And here I thought that men that do more household chores, like the dishwashing, laundry, and bathroom cleaning would bring out the lesbian attraction women have in each other. Wrong I am, again!

I did an insane amount of work around the house when I was married, and no, It didn't "get me laid" mostly because I was too tired.

She would occasionally get desperate and help out.

So I suppose I was the one "putting out" and SHE was the one "getting laid" by doing housework.

I have way more energy than the average guy. I basically have busy hands and need to be doing something most of the time. Which leads to having the perfect yard and a clean house. I think that sex and life is better when all the little stuff in life that needs to be done is taken care of then I can be in the moment and really enjoy what I am doing. Does that make sense?

It makes sense and it's true. About the yard and the little stuff. Can't comment on your busy hands and you're need to always be doing something.

Matt, yes, it is SOOO much easier for me to enjoy 1 on 1 time with my DH if the house is relatively clean and chores are finished. I'm a bit OCD and my mind has difficulty resting if I know there are dishes in the sink and laundry to be folded.

Nope, it has never helped me, doing the household chores, the yard work, home repair etc etc , then again, why should it lol, im alone. Now IMO, if a couple do those chores together, the potential for some bonding that brings about some getting laid is there. Jmo

I never used sex as a reward for him doing things or used lack of sex as some kind of punishment. I like sex, I love sex, I'm not going to spite myself if the grass isn't cut or he doesn't pick up his dirty socks. lol

I never had a problem with stbxh pitching in, I did most of the house and yard chores because he worked a minimum of 70 hours a week, usually more, I like getting chores done early in the morning but whenever he saw something that needed to be done, he did it. When I'm at partner's, we both do house and yard chores, we don't had "his" and "her" chores. He lived alone for 7 years after his divorce so cleaning house, cutting grass, taking care of the garden is very routine for him.

She loved when I turned the trimmer and put the "blow job edge" on the lawn and garden.

My Desire for My Beloved is what makes Me Desire Him. I WANT HIS BODY!!!

i dont ever recall a time that my h doin housework got him laid.

But i can recall times when hes ignored me askin him 2 do things n i get pissed.

think about it....

if he's outside washing the windows, what do you think i'm doing on the other side of the window?!?!?

Rev you are a naughty girl. Shame on me for not getting it sooner.

i can tell you that if my husband does the dishes, it is almost a guaranteed blowjob. i freaking hate dishes.

Geez Louise!

I think I may start a handyman business, windows and dishes are easy, lol