Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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bobinmaine 07/09/2013

I've been thinking alot lately about the may fly. Here is an insect that flies around in swarms for 24 hours, reaches out and grabs a mate, has sex, and then dies at the end of that 24 hour period!

Humans live alot longer of course and we spend alot of time trying to find a mate to have sex so we can die happy?

thoughts please?

drew4lostluv 07/09/2013

Having sex has nothing to do with dying happy. We r not mayflies. Sex is great but it doesn't bring constant joy like being in love does. Everyone out their has a love of their life that they will randomly run in too and fall in love with. Sex is a great perk in life thou. I enjoy sex. the female form is so perfect. the hips, the legs, the waste, the breasts. Man kind is blessed to be able to encounter such beauty.

deleted_user 07/09/2013

I don't think about dying happy, I don't think about dying, my thoughts on death are...........when it happens, it happens.

I rather be happy when I'm alive and living my life, I don't care how I feel when I'm on my death bed or if I die suddenly.

My view on life is, you're born, you die so make the most out of what comes in-between and just enjoy today, be happy today because tomorrow might not come. If I'm in a good relationship and having a good sex life, great. If not, I can still live every day making the best of it and find happiness in it.

I love sex, I have a very high libido and I would miss it if I never had it again but my happiness does not come from sex, from a partner or from any outside source, my happiness comes from within myself and being at peace with myself.

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