Healthy Sex Support Group
This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.
Would you rather masturbate then cheat on your mate?
Think about whomever, doing whatever you want while doing it. If you are determined to have another bit of something, have the decency to leave. Give your partner that respect.
Think about whomever, doing whatever you want while doing it. If you are determined to have another bit of something, have the decency to leave. Give your partner that respect."
Words of wisdom. If someone has been generous enough to support you and your children for 15 years, don't you owe them a complete break, rather than them hearing it in a bar as the guys sit around gossiping about their "conquests"? Much less the introduction of an incurable and eventually fatal disease as insult to injury.
there is too much pathos, too much hurt feelings, & when you have a family, kids lives are hurt. There's an added dimension with males (in my opinion). There is that view (which I doubt is true) that men are more likely to cheat, that they are playuhs, and I hate playing into that stereotype.
What's nice to know at least is if the sex is good and on a regular basis there is no need to cheat or masturbate.