Wow im really interested in the answers you get because ive never heard that (maybe he's a very special man :). Most men would not be happy lol

Wow! This guy's really special. Maybe he's storing up his seed so he squirts like a fire-hydrant one night (huge special effect)! "I'll have what he's having..."

Hendo, I am not sure about your the person that you are with and their age. I can only speak from the standpoint of a 38 year old male. I have to say that in the 11 years that I have been with my wife, there had been a total of no more then 3 times that I did not experience an orgasm. 1 of those times it was alcohol related and the other time I remembered that I was stressed out about something.

I can only speak for myself that when I do not experience an orgasm that I get ticked off. I don't get mad at my wife but only with the fact that I couldn't have an orgasm.

So to me that is not normal. It might be normal if he is much older, drunk, you and him are having a LOT of sex and so on. What is his batting average so to speak? Does he have an orgasm 4 out of 10 times? If it is 9 out of 10 times then don't feel bad. However, if it is more like 4 out of 10 times then you need to find out why. High blood pressure, diabetes, ED and so on? Does he suffer performance anxiety?

This is tough for me to answer.

I think because of the meds I take for bipolar it happens to me. I can stay hard for a LONG time, and never cum. He's exactly right. You don't have to cum to enjoy yourself. Although, if I had my choice, I'd shoot holes in the ceiling every time.

What Ron said...lexapro (for anxiety) can delay orgasm. It's not the end of the world if I don't finish. With certain medications, some of us are lucky to still get it up....;)

oohh, and my batting average is .900

I DO THINK THIS OCCURS MORE THAN PEOPLE REALIZE AND FOR A VARIETY OF REASONS. GOT TO AGREE WITH CODY IF IT HAPPENS MORE THAN NOT GET CHECKED OUT.

I've had evenings in the distant past where I've not ejaculated at all and still really enjoyed myself.

As long as the lady is having the time of her life thats where I take my pleasure!!!

i have epilepsy, so i'm taking 3 different kinds of pills a day. plus being a lot of pills each day, i'm surprised i can still get it up. mind you, it does'nt stay up for very long, that's one of the reasons why i'm divorced. i used the horny goat weed but that causes seizures so i stopped using that. when i am doing it i can go some time without coming, and it's o.k. if i don't come, but yes, i would prefer to come.

I WOULD SAY THAT IT'S FAIRLY NORMAL, AND ESPECIALLY IF SEX IS TAKING PLACE OFTEN AND VERY REGULARLY.
CODY HAD A GOOD RATIO STANDARD.
ME PERSONALLY (SINCE I'VE BEEN TRACKING IT FOR MY GOAL) I WAS 5 FOR 7 THE FIRST WEEK, AND THAT WASN'T COUNTING THE FEW TIMES THAT I PULLED A NUT ON THE SOLO TIP.
SO I GUESS MY BATTING AVERAGE IS ABOUT .714 WHICH IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME, BUT I'LL DEFINATELY KEEP PRACTICING.LMAO.:D

thanks guys. It is a new relationship and sex is frequent (very frequent) and i think this is the reason. He says he does not mind if he does not cum every time - i would say it is about 80% of the time he does.
It could be performance anxiety to some extent i suppose as it is a new relationship... I guess I wont really know until we settle down into the 3 - 4 times per week or whatever normality!
He doesnt get jacked off, he tells me he feels great even getting to the edge, so that is good.
thanks for the replies though..

I do admit that I've never known that to be 'typical', but 'normal' in a relationship is whatever makes both parties happy.
If that's truly satisfactory for him, and you too can accept that, then there isn't any problem!!!!! That's 'normal' for the both of you!!!!!

How long have you been with him? When my ex left me, and I started dating my wife, I didnt "finish" for like 2 months. May have just been me, but a change in partners, (if this guy is monogamsitic(spelling?)could effect his squirting. However It still felt wonderful for me, not having the pressure to orgasm. So.....

I rarely ejaculate in the morning, 32, healthy, no meds. I am just not a morning person. I am certainly into the act at the time and enjoy it...I'm not even a slow riser in that sense...Just not a morning person...

I have to agree about the meds...i was on anti-depressants for about 6 months and every time I tried to have an orgasim I would have to slam my peepee on the bed post...Thats why I don't like anti-depressants....