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I was wondering how many women know about the male g-spot and how to stimulate it? :)
But sometimes I have long nails and it can be a bit dangerous, so alternate methods must be used.
Search "tongue in ass" threads.
By `Jessica Perez, eHow Member
How to Find The Male G-Spot
The male G-spot is actually his prostate, and I'm going to show you how to find it! Place your hand at the root of his ****. On that location, inside his body, theres a chestnut-sized gland just below the bladder. This is his prostate gland. It manufactures part of the fluid that you emit during ejaculation and for most men is an excellent part of their anatomy that enables them to experience great sexual pleasure.
Instructions Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Step1 Cleanliness Helps
Arousing the prostate means that you need to access his backdoor. This may make a lot of men cringe but keep your eye on the goal great sexual pleasure. Anyway, part of a mans anxiety towards anal play is concern about hygiene. You can easily remove this mental obstacle by having a nice shower before further stimulating the male G-Spot. If you fear that he might want to engage in a bowel movement, then remove this obstacle by making him do this first before you even shower.
Step2Cut Your Nails To Prevent Any Accidents
The next thing to do is to ensure that you dont do anything to irritate or scratch his anus. Cut your nails and make sure your fingers are clean. (If you want to, you can use latex gloves too.) If you plan to use a sex toy, ensure that there are no rough edges that can hurt him.
Step3 It Starts With Your Mind
A man's prostate enlarges when he's aroused, making it easier to find. As such, try to arouse him first with a blow job or hand job
Step4 Lets Get Started
First of all, make sure your fingers are well lubed. Now, the best way to start inserting a finger through his backdoor is to use the tip of your finger first. Tell him to inhale as you do this. When he exhales, instruct him to contract his muscles a bit and push out as if he's relieving himself in the bathroom while continuously inserting the rest of your finger. Once your finger is in, just take a moment and relax. Tell him to try and get used to the feeling of your finger inside his anus.
Step5 Locate His Prostate
About two inches in and facing toward his belly, youll find his prostate. Its that walnut-shaped swelling that you feel.
Step6 Stimulate His G-Spot
After locating his prostate, nows the time to see what best stimulates it. Most men swear that applying continuous but consistent pressure on it is best, while others find that flicking it or using a sex toy that vibrates against it is best. Experiment and see which one suits him best!
Tips & Warnings
Anal penetration needs getting used. Try to have an open mind and focus instead of the sexual pleasure it can bring you and him!
Dont force yourself on the first try. Take baby steps and each time you try just go a bit further than the last time.
*shrug* I think that's how the line goes.
Electric toothbrushes work just fine though :)
YAY, using things for stuff other than their intended purpose...and probably violating some safety label.
I looked it up in my medical book to make sure that I remembered correctly. The perineum is the extra sensitve area Between the scrotum and the anus.