Healthy Sex Support Group
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Partner prefers me bare but he wouldn't complain if I wasn't. Since we don't see each other all that often, I could wait until we're going to see each other before I groom again but I just don't like hair on me. Not much different than shaving my legs and armpits, I hate the feel of hairy legs and pits on me so everything is taken care of regularly. I've been going bare for over 30 years so grooming is just part of my routine.
My partner sometimes goes bare, sometimes just trims up when we're together. When we're not together, he lets it go all natural. The last time I went to visit, I arrived 12 hours earlier than he expected and he was all natural, he had planned on shaving before I got there but it was all good by me. I don't care if he's bare, trimmed or natural, whatever he wants to do, it's all good. For myself though, I much prefer being bare. I like the look better, I like the feel much better when I'm bare during all sex acts whether it's with partner sex or solo sex.
I would never pass up on a good romp of mattress mambo just because a guy was hairy below.
As for my partner, I really don't care how he is. The last partner I was with was never bare and when I was first with him he was all natural and I never asked him to shave. It wasn't a big deal to me, but throughout my relationship he did trim and I enjoyed that much more. So whether or not you shave, I don't think it's that big of a deal.
I enjoy how it feels to be eaten out when I'm bare. I enjoy sex better. I find my vagina more attractive bare. I find the hair to be a distraction.
As for my partner, he prefers bare but in the end he doesn't care what it looks like. He thinks I'm beautiful anyways. My partner shaves most of the time and I think it's incredibly sexy. If he was all natural I probably wouldn't be super enthusiastic about giving him a blow job because though I don't have a bad gag reflex to giving head...I certainly do to hair in my mouth. But I wouldn't turn him down for sex.
As for a partner, it really makes no difference to me, although I might be a little less inclined to give head to George of the Jungle. Some hair is fine, out of control, not so much.
I keep it nice and trimmed as short as I can. It just feels more clean and tidy when I do, so I do it regularly.
As far as what I like on him, I like the untamed barbarian look - and there's alot to be said for a nice, fuzzy blanket this time of year :)
Anthem, I found this on sugaring. http://hairremoval.about.com/od/sugarwaxing/a/sugaring101.htm
It's not difficult at all once you've done it a few times. Having a mirror handy helps a lot too.