Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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dyinginside35 02/16/2018

I have always been one to love sex but lately I feel like im losing interest and I feel like I have lost the purpose of it. I want to enjoy sex and have an active sex life w my bf how can I get back into it. I have been under stress could this be doing it?

DieingInside 02/16/2018

Stress can do a lot of things to ones body.

Scottyk 02/19/2018

You have to want to be in a loving sexual realtionship, don't feel, just try to feel lust for your partner. My wife has no sexual desire anymore, so I know the other side of this problem. Even when I express my love without the need for sexual gratification, I get little in return. It is really depressing from the other side. From my side I would say to try harder, as a women you have most all of the sexual/sensual power, mind over matter and soon the desire will follow, along with the much need orgasim. It is natures little cure all!

Scottyk 02/19/2018

I really wish my wife felt the way you do, I know how lonely it is to feel this way.

Jillsaundars 02/23/2018

Pfft... I NEVER have any desire, interest or urge. But I know it is part of having a bf

So now and again I choose to do foreplay until it feels good then go ahead and do it anyway. The whole process does not hurt me physically or emotionally, and everyone feels better for orgasmic sex. It's just a matter of deciding to do it for me.

Obviously you may have reasons why just doing it anyway might be unpleasant, I'm not suggesting you go ahead If it harms you.

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