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Looking for Love...

koolman
koolman
...but will settle for lust, to beat the doldrums, punctuate the dreariness. Had to say it lol.

Going out to film a New Year's eve party at this new Off the Hookah bar in Ft. Lauderdale. I'll letch'y'all know what hotties and sexy behavior abound.

Similar sentiments?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Have fun Kool, hope you come across some hotties.
totallychaotic247
totallychaotic247
I would just settle for some lust right now, too! Don't have anyone to kiss at midnight :(
BackToGood
BackToGood
Funny you should say that koolman. I was thinking the exact same thing. I've got to work on my self confidence though. I've decided to get back into running. I used to run when I was in my early 20's and was in the best shape of my life. I think the stamina training will be a great bonus when I do find someone.

I hope you get lucky!
koolman
koolman
Thanks for the replies, ladies.

I was way out of the early 20s age range of that group, so felt like the old fart, but generally tried to be warm and fun and the ladies did respond warmly. The fellas, however, like dogs marking their turf, didn't care for it. Fuck 'em.
koolman
koolman
Thanks, mo. That's why the ladies love me. I truly and genuinely love THEM. There's no superficiality from me whatsoever. I'm emotionally brave and come straight from the heart. I'm not afraid to get hurt, because I ALREADY hurt at times, and hurting is preferrable to feeling nothing at all. But I don't want to be this sad character. I want to be the fun, dynamic character I'm capable of, so I try to be that too. In many ways, I'm their "dream man". The other GUYS are the ones who have a problem, with superficiality, within themselves, and find it perplexing, how me, a guy of "average" looks, can move right in and talk with the most beautiful ladies, get them to warm up to me and laugh...