Healthy Sex Support Group

This community is dedicated to an open discussion about healthy sex and sharing thoughts and feelings about sexuality and improving one's sex life. Most active adults desire to have an active and fulfilling sex life, both for themselves and also their partner. Here we discuss common sexual challenges faced by both men and women.

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shanbanan 04/15/2014

So I'm seriously missing making love to my husband. I don't know when it's gonna happen for us. I'm longing to feel that deep physical and emotional connection with him. Without it I feel empty, disconnected. Sigh

lostsoul72 04/15/2014

I know that feeling all to well :(. Im sorry you have to go through this.

Bubbabiker 04/15/2014

Shanbanan, have you communicated you wants and desires to him?

shanbanan 04/15/2014

Yes bubba I have.

deleted_user 04/15/2014

I long for it too

LindaMarie8289 04/15/2014

I miss that feeling of a deep emotional and physical connection, too. Someday, I hope and pray that I will meet a decent, genuine loving and caring man to form these bonds with! *Heavy Sigh*

Hang in there Shannon!! (((Hugs)))

koolman 04/15/2014

Wish I could help ya. Did husband give any indication of WHEN he would be ready for some lovemaking?

shelle68 04/15/2014

I think we all feel that way. I feel that way.

I will not devalue myself to try and get that need met.

MsViv 04/15/2014

So you have told him, it's been years and you can't predict when it's going to happen... I think you have some decisions to make.

You could talk to him again and tell him you need physical touch. Not think about it any more, get professional help on how you are going to move forward with your life, get divorced if neither of you can compromise to be on a semi-same page, or find yourself a pool boy to take care of your problems .

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