I would be really surprised if someone would tell you how to create libido. That is an inner feeling, you born with it.

There was an Oprah Winfrey special, many years back the first time i have ever seen Dr Phil , and was about libido...

Between 49 and 52% of woman claimed to be sexually dysfunctional in the US .That is a huge number. And it is not connected with looks or body type. There are books were written abut this not only by doctors but woman who is fighting the same problem. The husband take her to Hawaii, house on top of the mountain top for thousands a night, beautiful woman, great looking husband..and nothing worked even as money was no object. The woman was an ABC anchor woman in Los Angeles..That is one reason the Pharma trying to create the female Viagra...unsuccessfully so far. FDA turned them down.

More Young Women, 18-30, Report Low Libido
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/young-women-desire-sex-low-libido/story?id=10428648

It could be hormonal or it could be mental - if you never really see sex as a hot, satisfying thing to engage in, you won't be interested. Have you tried reading any erotica?

There are a lot of things that can affect your libido, a physical/medical issues/illnesses, psychological issues, hormone changes, stress, medications, the list goes on. Have you talked to your gyno about it?

Libido for me is something that has and ebb and a flow.

I had a terrible time with my libido when I was in an unsatisfying relationship.

Does masturbation work?

How about a visit to the doctor to rule out an organic cause?

Best wishes to you and yours. I hope it's soon resolved.

The thing that works best for me is reading material, but nothing graphic, just something lightly erotic~

I agree with Ginger. My libido has ebb and flow. You stated "at the moment" which makes me think it might be temporary. I can tell you that when I was in my twenties, my partner was always ready and always on me and I found it to be a complete turn-off!

BUT, when he let up and my hormones said, "go", he had a hard time keeping up with me!

Libido is such a personal thing. Do you ever ask yourself why you don't desire sex, or do you really believe it's all physical...

A company called Mannatech makes a product called Plus .Its a great natural product. Great for evening out hormone and more.

Thank you all very much, I have not talked to my doctor yet but I will do so. I think feeling that sex is a requirement is a huge turn off for me and that it should be nearly constantly. I just don't feel it.

I know my body can get aroused but it really takes a lot. I haven't wanted to blame my little problem on my bad choices in men and I know the man I'm with right now is not the one I'll love like a husband, so state of mind is a problem.

I think if I had some breaks and if I wasn't pushed so hard that I would enjoy sex much more. So there it is, thanks again for your thoughts it's helped :)

Yes you could be right... hard to do things under pressure...