I am not a woman but I can tell your from past experiences that the best way to get around such a problem is to simply ask the person to clarify their statement. Way too many times I assumed that my wife meant one thing yet said another. We both have learned the hard way that it is easier to simply ask than to assume. By asking her you are demonstrating a lack of fear when it comes to communication. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man who exudes confidence. This won't be the last time that you will have difficulty in understanding a woman's words.

was it a prepost that she shared? or did she personally type it. If it is a prepost (shared) then I wouldn't put to much stalk in to it.
You have been seeing her for months and not been physical? Yet she is looking for someone as "twisted and perverted" maybe she wants a physical relationship and thinks yours is just a friendship.

I can't imagine dating for months and not having a physical relationship.
I think your best approach would be to ask her where you stand. Plan and simple.

You asked for opinions so I am going to tell you how I honestly feel. I am concerned that she is telling FB what she wants and needs; instead of her telling you. I could be very wrong but I don't think someone of quality in a serious exclusive relationship would write something like that on FB for everyone to see. I mean... your Mom or Aunt Hilda could read that. lol Sorry but, I also think it shows very little class. Many people who know me on here know I am not a prude at all. There is a saying, "A lady on the street and a whore in the sheets." lol

In my opinion two people can be as kinky as they like but I wouldn't want my partner doing those types of things with multiple partners.

I agree with the others you need to have a talk with her.

Good Luck!

Lisa I could not have said it better...I concur..lol

Talk to her.

I say ask her too.

I agree with Lisa, if she posted that in a place where everyone she knows can see, it suggests that she doesn't think of herself as being in a serious relationship, and, in her mind, she's still looking.

That said, that would be MY way of thinking, and I am not her. Talk to her.

To me it sounds as if she isn't into the relationship. YOu can talk to her as the others have said, but to me it sounds like the 2 of you aren't on the same page.

Don't change yourself for anyone.

Notta woman either..

"Twisted and Perverted" huh?

Well there is always another explanation...

She is not a she!

I suppose a F2F meeting would help..

Or are you skyping? .. in which case mostly nevermind. But check for prominent adam's apple anyways! :-)

J

I concur with Lisa #3. I may like to get a bit kinky now and then if that's what my partner is up for but by no means would I ever put something like that on FB for all to see. In fact, if the tables were turn and a guy that I was known to be seeing were to put that on FB, he would IMMEDIATELY be unfriended on FB - that is totally inappropriate as so many people of family members and business friends on FB. Good Lord, I would be mortified and beyond ....

Ask that lady straight forward if she wants to hook up and see what she says sometimes we need to be straight forward on certain things or we are left wondering. : )

NEVER take to heart a post online. Most women like to think they are twisted, perverted, whatever, but 99.9% of the time, we're all the same normal.

Thanks for the thoughts ladies!! I did ask her about it and she told me that it was just something she thought was funny and not to read into things too much. Later she took it down and told me that she didn't realize the reactions that she got and didn't want people to look at her that way. We also talked about our friendship and we agreed to take things slow since we both have kids and don't want to cause any issues with them. My daughter is SUPER PROTECTIVE of me LOL.. So, talking to her def got us on the same page and no more wondering @Salty...