I know you said "ladies"

but I'm going to chime in. My experience is that when a woman is nearing orgasm, she doesn't really care about much else. Especially if it's multiple intense orgasms, like you said.

But at the same time, every woman is different, so I would bet that asking the woman in question would be the best approach.

Male or female, it depends on the person. For my sexual partner, he finds it important for him to orgasm, and occasionally he feels bad that I don't, but for him mutual orgasm or pleasing me isn't the priority. As far as I am concerned, it's more important for me to please him, than orgasm myself. I'm not all that sexual.

I get pleasure from the intimacy of it. So it really does depend on your partner. I think the fact that someone would find pleasure in pleasing his/her partner in whatever way he/she can, makes the experience all the more special.

And for someone who finds mutual sexual satisfaction important, just explain that you do find sex satisfying and you enjoy it, if for a slightly different reason. Hopefully your partner will understand (:

I am Master's Love Slave, so pleasing him is all. But since I enjoy a wide variety of sexual activities, am easily pleased, easily stimulated, come easily and am multi-orgasmic, I always Cum. A lot.

So long as you were being pleased to the point of multiple intense orgasms, would it rteally matter if your male partner was using his erect penis or not ? Hell no

If your male partner was incapable of ejaculating and not overly concerned with it, would it be a big deal for you ? Hell no

Would you accept that a guy could really be aroused and achieve great pleasure from helping you to achieve oragsms ? Hell yes

What is more important, mutual satisfaction or pleasing your partner?
I think it's a combo of both.
Satisfaction and pleasing are done in multiple ways.

A glass lingam is wonderful. So hard and smooth. It may not be a real penis, but is always there, always hard.

Thank you so much for your honest answers.

As long as he is pleased and I am pleased I wouldn't care if he was using his penis or not. Mutual satisfaction is what it should be about.

Pleasing your partner, hands down! ... for hours, and hours, and hours..... :-)