Healthy Sex Support Group
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So when women actually see an above average cock you seem to be very excited and in awe. Why do you then tell guys size is not a big deal? Would you just like to admire the big one or is it a girls fantasy and you don't want to hurt a guys feelings?#
It's the same as giant bars of chocolate. Hell yes, we admire, we drool, but few of us would fancy our chances in devouring the entire thing. A novelty- not for every day enjoyment! This refers to HUGE cocks. And most guys don't have them.
Guys tend to fall in the 4-9 inch category as a whole, and it really doesn't matter which end of the scale you're at. It's what you do with it that counts. It's the quality! Same as chocolate! If I had a 9 inch chocolate bar from a box of 20 that I bought for 2 in a discount store, I'd throw it away in favour of a gourmet 4 inch chocolate bar every time! Quality over quantity, every single time.
The bigger they are, the more likely they are to hit the magical spot, regardless of the quality behind it, thus almost ensuring some pleasure. Shallow, and not really satisfactory pleasure, if there's no skill behind it. But the biology behind it is sound- the bigger the more likely to achieve orgasm in the female with less effort. But who wants a half assed attempt at fucking? We want a guy that knows what he's doing, regardless of the size of his equipment. We all want a guy who really wants to please US! Penis size and the worry over it, plus the women's salivating desire for a massive dick is a media perpetrated myth. And, like the drones to the industry that we all are, we jump on the bandwagon.
Give me a guy with a 4 inch and a desire to please any day over a 9 inch pursuing his own orgasm!
Of course we like big dicks vs. small.
Like magic's analogy, men like big boobs or a nice ass or shapely legs.
For us, the magic button = a big dick
Does that mean we always get it? No
Does that mean we don't like other sizes? No
giving the picture are u trying to tell us ur a real big dick or is it a pic of a tree.
And yeah, why do men drool over huge tits then say it's not that important? They want to ride in a hot air balloon but don't want people peeking over the fence if it's parked out back getting some sun, rubbing on the tanning oil.
Pardon me, went to far there.
I think we all agree that the size does not necessarily mean he is a good lover...but 8 inches with a little girth sure is a good start!
Zigy - I just thought the pic was funny and something different.
Most ladies that have been with a bigger than average cock still desire it in one way or another. That is not including the emotional aspect of sex though, of course.
Now if you have emotional connections to your large friend, I expect your desire makes for good fantasies.
:)